Have you heard about Reddit’s AITA forum? No? You’re in for some REAL fun then!
For those of you who are wondering what AITA stands for – it means “Am I the real A-Hole?”. As the name depicts, people share their real-life experiences and let people be the judge of it whether what they did was right or wrong and people would put in their suggestions and sh*t. Some of the stories appear completely fake while some of them are weird AF. However, one can obviously distinguish genuine from false stories.
There are many real-life stories which people can relate to! Now, what’s the best part of all this? People judging and pointing fingers at each other. There are people who are supportive and would sympathize but hey, where’s the fun in that, right? Anyways, without any further ado, let’s move onto the story that we decided to share with you.
So, a Reddit user u/houseplantlover9 decided to talk about problems related to dating and periods – The user happens to be a 23 y/o woman who has been in a relationship for the past 6 months and according to her, the relationship is healthy along with good sex and strong communication. So, where exactly does the problem lies in all of this? Scroll down and let’s find out!
Well, isn’t that just pathetic of that guy because he clearly can’t see anything beyond sex at this point? He is implying that the girl is doing it on purpose and she doesn’t want to have sex with him. Gosh, I can clearly tell who’s the real A-hole at this moment but let’s hold on our horses until we complete the story and then we can judge all we want! Keep scrollin’!
Woah, so the guy ended up implying that she is CHEATING on him with somebody else and that is why she doesn’t want to have sex? Damn. Are you for real, man? I feel sorry for the girl and she definitely shouldn’t feel bad for calling him an “idiot”. As a matter of fact, it’s good what she did because he deserved every bit of it. Some people are just too full of themselves and would want things their way, always. Like, even after all that, he wants her to apologize. That’s pathetic.
But wait, the story doesn’t end here. The girl decided to give us updates about it and she goes on..
“Edit: Just wanted to offer an update. This has really changed my perspective on things. I think I was so thinking about the sanitary towel thing that I hadn’t really realized how bad his behavior was. His mom actually sent me a message on Facebook saying what I did was disgusting and really abnormal and that she doesn’t think me and my boyfriend should date anymore. I can’t believe his mom is messaging me about this. I blocked her and messaged him that he needs to come and pick up the stuff that he’s left at mine. Luckily it isn’t much. He hasn’t replied but I saw that he has shared a post on Facebook about women being crazy. So I guess we’re done. Thanks to everyone who took the time to respond. And sorry to everyone else who is dealing with annoying periods due to contraception! It sucks!”
Well, we are absolutely glad that her perspective changed about it. It’s purely a toxic relationship and it should have ended earlier but moments like these are important for the crucial decision making. However, now let’s go ahead and take a look at how people reacted to it! It’s interesting. Scroll down to see.
This is so true! He doesn’t know sh*t!
“Also, his idea that periods don’t last more than a week? He knows so much about women’s bodies.” — BeefTheAlch
Yep, everyone has been there, right?
“I mean, come on. That is something that humans cannot control, and to get so mad when you were offered proof? You’ve seen the place it came from, dude, it ain’t that gross.” — neveradullmoment72
So, by this point, the people knew who the real a-hole was.
“Gold NTA. I would dump his ass. He literally got mad at you because you were on your period….. how much more childish can it get?” — spiritual-owl2
Yep, he totally deserved it.
“I had a friend who thought we could hold it and got mad at his gf for not holding it through a weekend trip he planned. He was promptly dumped and called an idiot by all his friends.” — Lin0712
Why this relationship was toxic to begin with? Well, the guy got angry for not getting sex. It clearly depicts that he had ONE purpose only and that’s all this relationship was about and once he had to wait a week for it and still couldn’t get any, this is where he couldn’t hold it anymore and decided to burst while revealing his true identity.
These people had the same opinion too!
“Yup! At the end of the day, he was just annoyed that he wasn’t getting sex. No matter what OP would have said or done, he would have turned it around on her.” — NurseRatchet16
“There’s a lot here wrong with the boyfriend but what boggles my mind is that he instantly assumes she’s cheating because they haven’t done it in a week??? That alone feels like a red flag.” — PossibleCook
” Agreed NTA. Also the fact that you’ve been dating for six months and he’s accusing you of cheating is a maaaajor red flag. That dude is paranoid and rude tbh.” — wistfulxwaves 70
Honestly, this was one of the best comments we came across!
“Oh there’s more to it than that. He got mad at her for being on her period and refusing him sex he felt he was entitled to (btw, he’s not. Nobody ever is, and you have every right to turn him down for whatever reason) so he accused her of lying and cheating because in his mind, he knows more about menstruation than OP and her doctor, and lying and cheating are more probable scenarios than an extended and unpredictable cycle after changing birth control.
This guy’s a f—kin’ GEM, and I hope his family is oh so satisfied with the intelligent, logical and level-headed person they’ve raised him to be. Congratulations on dodging this bullet, OP, and don’t let his misogynistic family make you feel any type of way about flashing your pad to shut him up. When I was on depo (the shot) mine lasted 20 days straight and came back 10 days later. Everything about your post except the man and his family is normal, and I’m happy to hear you threw the whole man away. I was going to advise that you do so.” —about97cats
These people thought that making his mommy jump into the argument was ridiculous and he was such a crybaby!
“What in the hell – after reading the edit I cannot believe he ran home and told his mom and sister about it. Everything about him screams childish. Not even touching the fact that he called you a liar and a cheater, I would consider if I wanted to date someone who was going to drag his family into every fight you have.” — myboyisapatsfan
“He got his mommy to downgrade his girlfriend. I think he can go lower. Such a sad little man.” — itsadogslife71
People are really glad that she decided to end it!
“Yeah, that guy can fling himself into the SUN. Even if you weren’t on your period, he’s going to have a tantrum about not getting sex whenever he wants? And then involves his whole family in it? That’s a scary mindset, especially since it’s only been about a week or so without sex.” — SugarSugarBee
“I am so glad she dumped his ass. His mom is a wacko too. NTA op. Box up his stuff. Put it out the front door. Text him, tell him it is outside and he has 24 hours and it is going in the trash. Lock up. Then block him. Period.” — itsadogslife71
Well, how did you like the story? We bet you are pissed at that guy too for being such an a-hole and not realizing that his girlfriend is a human too. These type of people just want to watch the world burn but luckily, he got what he truly deserved! We would love to know your views and opinions in regards to this matter. Feel free to share them into the comments section below!