When you are getting married, you make sure everything goes smoothly. You plan everything beforehand so your wedding day can become memorable for you. Groom and bride are conscious about the little things from venue to menu, they make sure everything is on point and according to their desire. Some people like it simple, some want a destination wedding while others want a kids-free wedding. A Reddit user and her husband decided on a kids-free wedding due to the venue choice, alcohol and food choice etc. but her husband\u2019s best friend showed up at the wedding with his 4 kids. Can you imagine 4 kids at a kids-free wedding? Wouldn\u2019t it be surprising for the couple and the guests? Would not everyone be offended by this behavior? Well, OP kicked him out of the wedding and his husband is not happy with her so she took it to Reddit to ask if she should be guilty of it. Scroll down to read the whole story!<\/p>\n
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<\/h2>\nVia u\/Upper-AD46567<\/a><\/p>\n Via u\/Upper-AD46567<\/a><\/p>\n Via u\/Upper-AD46567<\/a><\/p>\n Via u\/Upper-AD46567<\/a><\/p>\n Via u\/Upper-AD46567<\/a><\/p>\n Via u\/Upper-AD46567<\/a><\/p>\n Via u\/Upper-AD46567<\/a><\/p>\n Via u\/Upper-AD46567<\/a><\/p>\n Via u\/Upper-AD46567<\/a><\/p>\n Via u\/Upper-AD46567<\/a><\/p>\n Via u\/Upper-AD46567<\/a><\/p>\n Via u\/Upper-AD46567<\/a><\/p>\n People think OP is NTA but her husband and Leo are the real AHs. Leo already knew about the rule. If he could not find any babysitter for his kids, he should have not come and stayed at home with his kids rather than showing up and ruining the whole event. How could OP make exceptions and offend the other guests? A rule is a rule and you should respect it. What do you guys think about this? Is OP the AH or NTA?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" A couple decided on a kids-free wedding but the groom\u2019s bff showed up with 4 of his kids. When you are getting married, you make sure everything goes smoothly. You plan everything beforehand so your wedding day can become memorable for you. Groom and bride are conscious about the little things from venue to menu, […] More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":137884,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[707,5,118],"tags":[3926,6879,6880,1149,6306,2608,140,3062,559],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/aita-for-having-my-husbands-friend-kicked-out-for-bringing-his-4-kids-to-my-child-free-wedding.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/137867"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=137867"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/137867\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":137950,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/137867\/revisions\/137950"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/137884"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=137867"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=137867"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=137867"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}2. Why they decided on a child-free wedding:<\/h2>\n
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<\/h2>\n3. Leo complained about the rule.<\/h2>\n
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<\/h2>\n4. The couple heard some noises at their wedding.<\/h2>\n
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<\/h2>\n5. It was Leo with his 4 kids arguing with the staff.<\/h2>\n
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<\/h2>\n6. OP went to talk to Leo but he got offended.<\/h2>\n
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<\/h2>\n7. OP’s husband thinks she has ruined his relationship with his friend, Leo.<\/h2>\n
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<\/h2>\n8. Is OP the AH for kicking her husband’s friend out?<\/h2>\n
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<\/h2>\n9. OP thinks she can be the AH for one reason:<\/h2>\n
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<\/h2>\n10. Leo showing up with his kids is absolute AH.<\/h2>\n
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<\/h2>\n11. OP is NTA but Leo and her husband are AHs.<\/h2>\n
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<\/h2>\n12. OP’s husband is blaming the wrong person.<\/h2>\n
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