{"id":199656,"date":"2022-09-24T07:13:55","date_gmt":"2022-09-24T07:13:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/defused.com\/?p=199656"},"modified":"2022-09-24T07:13:58","modified_gmt":"2022-09-24T07:13:58","slug":"wife-adopts-dog","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wife-adopts-dog\/","title":{"rendered":"Messy Wife Adopts A Dog Without Asking Husband, Doesn’t Clean The Mess Dog Makes, Drama Ensues"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you decide to have a baby or a pet, you should be responsible to take care of them instead of neglecting them.<\/h2>\n

Having a baby or a pet does sound adorable and to be very honest, it is the best decision ever if you are a responsible person. But, if you are an irresponsible person, you should not even think of it. A husband shared on Reddit how his wife doesn\u2019t take care of their six-month-old daughter. She would not clean the bin filled with dirty diapers for two weeks. She would not clean the house and would spend her time watching dumb TikTok videos. She wouldn\u2019t listen to her daughter crying. She would leave the oven on for hours and forget about it.<\/p>\n

She would turn on the stove for cooking and would forget it and the food will burn. She didn\u2019t clean the dishes which were sitting in the sink for 3 months. OP\u2019s wife wanted to have a dog and one day, she adopted a puppy and told OP that she got it for $500. The dog pooped and peed everywhere in the house and OP had to remind his wife to clean it. OP told her that she is responsible for the dog and that she should pay for it which caused a fight between them. Scroll down to read the full story.<\/p>\n

1. OP’s wife never cleans up after herself or their 6-month-old baby. It takes her two weeks to clean a bin filled with dirty diapers.<\/h2>\n

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2. She forgets to check the food that is cooking, leaves the oven on for hours and wouldn’t clean up the dishes because she is too busy watching TikTok videos.<\/h2>\n

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3. OP’s wife adopted a puppy and told him that she got it for $500.<\/h2>\n

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4. OP was pissed off and told his wife that he doesn’t have the budget for the dog and that she should get rid of it.<\/h2>\n

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5. OP clearly told his wife that the dog is her responsibility and she will pay for everything needed for the dog.<\/h2>\n

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6. The dog was not house trained and it peed and pooped everywhere in the house.<\/h2>\n

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7. OP told his wife to pay for the dog and they got into a fight. OP’s wife locked herself in her office for the entire day.<\/h2>\n

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8. OP thinks that he can be TAH for not considering his wife’s feelings.<\/h2>\n

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If OP has a job then it was his wife’s duty to look after the house. Who leaves the dishes for 3 months? No one does that. It seems like OP’s wife needs help. He should consider her mental health and take her to a psychologist, it might be post-partum depression.<\/p>\n

9. OP’s wife needs to be medically and psychologically evaluated to make sure everything is good with her.<\/h2>\n

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10. It was OP’s home too, why did he let it all happen?<\/h2>\n

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11. OP and his wife, both are not taking the right care of their child.<\/h2>\n

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12. OP thinks that he has done his part in caring for his daughter.<\/h2>\n

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13. OP thinks that post-partum depression can not do this to his wife.<\/h2>\n

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What do you guys think of it? Is it because of post-partum depression? Let us know in the comment section.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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