{"id":216015,"date":"2022-12-06T05:53:12","date_gmt":"2022-12-06T05:53:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/defused.com\/?p=216015"},"modified":"2022-12-06T05:53:14","modified_gmt":"2022-12-06T05:53:14","slug":"confused-mother-not-inviting-the-special-kid","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/defused.com\/confused-mother-not-inviting-the-special-kid\/","title":{"rendered":"Confused Mother Asked If She Was Rude For Not Inviting The Special Kid To Her Daughter’s Birthday Party"},"content":{"rendered":"

It’s almost unbelievable that we have to discuss in this day and age whether it’s fair, acceptable, or disrespectful to deliberately exclude the one student in the class who is different from a special event. But that’s precisely what transpired recently when a mother asked the “AITA” Reddit community. And you guys might know the Reddit “AITA” do not let anyone drift off without a piece of advice.<\/p>\n

Why wasn’t my daughter obliged to bring the special needs student in her class to her birthday celebration, the woman questioned. Though she went into great length about why she didn’t “make” her daughter invite the youngster, it was still hard to accept. If you were to take the question at face value and respond, “Well, no,” don’t worry. To dive deeper into this case keep on scrolling down below and make sure you guys read it till the end otherwise, you are not going to get the whole point here.<\/p>\n

1. So here’s how this starts concerning the autistic kid named Tyler<\/h3>\n

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2. Then her daughter said this<\/h3>\n

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3. Yeah, because that kid might end up feeling a bit sad due to not getting an invitation, let’s see what happened next.<\/h3>\n

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4. Now it’s up to you guys to be wise and let us know who’s the A-hole here, but first let’s see what other Redditors think about this.<\/h3>\n

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5. It’s a wise recommendation to let him and his caretaker, or parents decide if he can handle the party or not.<\/h3>\n

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6. YTA, that kid and his family would have been thrilled just by the invitation of this birthday party but OP chose not to invite them, and she kinda taught her daughter a terrible lesson.<\/h3>\n

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7. OP should have at least talked to Tyler’s parents they would have handled the situation or maybe they could have found a way to let him attend the party, excluding someone different is not okay.<\/h3>\n

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8. This user thinks it’s incredibly mean of OP to invite a whole class except Tyler<\/h3>\n

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9. This user got a point, that kid will know somehow.<\/h3>\n

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10. Everybody is saying OP here is an A-hole<\/h3>\n

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11. This is a fact special kids are the ones who don’t want to cause a scene<\/h3>\n

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12. Well this comment here is a bit harsh but yeah everyone is pissed off at OP<\/h3>\n

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13. I feel sad for Tyler OP you shouldn’t have excluded that kid<\/h3>\n

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14. Same I don’t even understand this makes no sense, what do you think guys and gals?<\/h3>\n

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Excluding that kid was not only a mistake but OP kinda trained her daughter to do the same when she grows up or becomes a mother. What if that kid Tyler would love that swimming pool party,? Think about his parents they would have been delighted just by getting to know that their kid who is special is invited to a birthday party. One way or another that kid is gonna know about the party, and we hope he doesn’t feel sad or feel like he’s someone that people don’t wanna be around.<\/div>\n

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It’s almost unbelievable that we have to discuss in this day and age whether it’s fair, acceptable, or disrespectful to deliberately exclude the one student in the class who is different from a special event. But that’s precisely what transpired recently when a mother asked the “AITA” Reddit community. And you guys might know the […] More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":216053,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3040,403,118],"tags":[6464,8744,2428,648,94,93,1907,9526,326],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/OHSmbACiyheg_8209_1200.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/216015"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/19"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=216015"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/216015\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":216407,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/216015\/revisions\/216407"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/216053"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=216015"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=216015"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=216015"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}