{"id":216856,"date":"2022-12-09T05:52:22","date_gmt":"2022-12-09T05:52:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/defused.com\/?p=216856"},"modified":"2022-12-09T05:52:25","modified_gmt":"2022-12-09T05:52:25","slug":"woman-tells-sister-her-kids-are-her-problem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/defused.com\/woman-tells-sister-her-kids-are-her-problem\/","title":{"rendered":"Woman Tells Sister Her Kids Are Her Problem After She Slept With Her Husband"},"content":{"rendered":"

As we know, “family values” is a wonderful concept in this life however, when invoked in a positive way, it’s even more wonderful. In my opinion, family values are the best – for example, a bright, warm house for the holidays, parents and children eating together at a large table, joint outings and games… the list goes on.<\/p>\n

But how much can you stand a person who betrays you in the most vicious way, despite the close ties you share with that person? We are given the choice here to hold a grudge and cut all ties, or to do what the ancients taught us to turn the left cheek when struck on the right. Our heroine chose the first.<\/p>\n

Today a member of Reddit’s r\/AITA community posted this story a few days ago and it currently has approximately 20.4K upvotes and 3.2K different comments. Although most people support the OP, so her position should probably be considered quite reasonable. But let us see if we can figure it out for ourselves.<\/p>\n

Things went horribly wrong for the OP seven years ago, when she was expecting a child. Around 10 weeks into the pregnancy, she suffered a miscarriage and when she returned home she caught her husband in bed with her own sister. Because of the double betrayal, the OP not only filed for divorce immediately but also severed all ties with her sister and limited contact with her parents, who tried to somehow justify her behavior.<\/p>\n

1. Dude was messing around with his wife’s sister? bruh.<\/h3>\n

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2. Why do people who cheat think apologizing would fix everything?<\/h3>\n

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3. Bruh the guy literally impregnated both sisters.<\/h3>\n

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4. Why would her parents want her to be a part of the baby’s life? bro what!<\/h3>\n

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5. 3 children with his ex’s sister? bruh<\/h3>\n

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6. Well we are glad she met someone who actually deserved her<\/h3>\n

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7. Looks like she got everything she deserves<\/h3>\n

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8. How do people have the guts to ask for help from the people they hurt the most?<\/h3>\n

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9. What made OP’s parents think that she would be there for her sister after what she did?<\/h3>\n

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10. Once a cheater, always a cheater.<\/h3>\n

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11. Did she do the right thing?<\/h3>\n

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12. Why do they expect OP to do all this?<\/h3>\n

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13. We don’t think that saying sorry can fix something like this<\/h3>\n

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14. OP should tell them that its karma<\/h3>\n

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15. Is she the A-Hole?<\/h3>\n

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16. Should she cut off her family completely?<\/h3>\n

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17. Why do girls always fall for guys like him?<\/h3>\n

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18. KARMA.<\/h3>\n

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19. She got exactly what she gave to OP<\/h3>\n

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20. Exactly how did they expect her to forgive her sister<\/h3>\n

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21. What do you guys think? is sister the real A-hole?<\/h3>\n

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22. What do you guys think do the children deserve an aunt?<\/h3>\n

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23. Exactly it isn’t about being good or bad, it’s about boundaries.<\/h3>\n

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24. Do you guys have sympathy for people like that?<\/h3>\n

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25. Indeed, it’s a real shame.<\/h3>\n

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26. For real though, no one deserves to lose a child.<\/h3>\n

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27. Favourtisim shouldn’t exist for parents<\/h3>\n

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29. For real, how did her parents hang around with that guy knowing what he did to their daughter?<\/h3>\n

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OP wasn’t being an A-hole at all her sister, her ex and her parents were the real A-holes. That’s it for today fellas let us know what you think about this post down below in the comment section, make sure to like and share this article with your friends and family, and stay tuned for more content like this with defused. Thank you!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

As we know, “family values” is a wonderful concept in this life however, when invoked in a positive way, it’s even more wonderful. In my opinion, family values are the best – for example, a bright, warm house for the holidays, parents and children eating together at a large table, joint outings and games… the […] More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":216888,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,134],"tags":[6464,8693,561,290,104,12,66,3194,3229],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-refuses-to-be-aunt-fb44-1.png","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/216856"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/19"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=216856"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/216856\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":216928,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/216856\/revisions\/216928"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/216888"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=216856"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=216856"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=216856"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}