{"id":248916,"date":"2023-06-10T06:10:52","date_gmt":"2023-06-10T06:10:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/defused.com\/?p=248916"},"modified":"2023-06-10T08:05:52","modified_gmt":"2023-06-10T08:05:52","slug":"customer-wants-help","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/defused.com\/customer-wants-help\/","title":{"rendered":"Customer Wants Help From Male Employee Only, Female Employee Maliciously Complies"},"content":{"rendered":"

In our modern society, it is disheartening to acknowledge that discrimination still exists in various forms.<\/h2>\n

However, there are individuals who rise above such adversity, breaking stereotypes and paving the way for change. The following story serves as an inspiring example of resilience, empowerment, and the strength to challenge preconceived notions.<\/p>\n

In the bustling aisles of a big-box hardware store, a young woman found herself facing the harsh reality of discrimination. As the manager of the paint department, her youthful appearance often invited skepticism and prejudice from both customers and employees. Despite these challenges, she remained steadfast in her commitment to foster a positive work environment and support her team. But she faced most of the gender discrimination by women. This one encounter was with a woman who demanded a “male customer”. Scroll down for the complete story.<\/p>\n

This is the title of the post shared in the subreddit r\/MaliciousCompliance<\/a>:<\/h2>\n

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OP, a young female department manager in a hardware store, reflects on her experiences of sexual discrimination, particularly from women, despite her young appearance.<\/h2>\n

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OP, as the manager of the paint department, built a great rapport with her three associates by providing them with a department radio, accommodating their preferred shifts, and creating an awesome team dynamic.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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OP was alone in the department one day when she encountered a customer who asked about the five gallon oil based primer. OP told her that her location doesn’t carry this item to which the customer gave her a condescending remark.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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OP calmly informed the customer about the availability of the desired item at another location, but the customer insulted her intelligence and demanded a male employee:<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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OP strategically involved Joe, a capable but new employee, to assist the upset customer and address her inquiries.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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The lady expressed relief at finally encountering a male employee, asked her question, and after Joe’s response, enthusiastically acknowledged the prospect of receiving “real help.”<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Joe came up to OP to ask about the five-gallon oil-based primers and the lady asked him what he was doing. Joe proudly introduced OP as his manager:\"\"<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Through her poise and professionalism, OP challenged societal expectations and stood up against gender bias. Her willingness to involve a new male employee showcased her belief in equal capabilities, regardless of gender. This story serves as a reminder that empowerment can arise from the simplest of acts, ultimately contributing to a more inclusive society.<\/p>\n

Another young girl encountered an old customer who wanted help from a man:<\/h2>\n

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We all deserve coworkers who have our back:<\/h2>\n

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Buying Joe lunch was a good reward:<\/h2>\n

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You are not refusing a woman, you are refusing years of experience:<\/h2>\n

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Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section below. Have you encountered similar situations? How have you addressed stereotypes and discrimination? Let’s continue the conversation and inspire one another to create a more equal and understanding world.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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“Star crossed the rainbow bridge yesterday.”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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