{"id":283474,"date":"2023-11-16T03:42:05","date_gmt":"2023-11-16T03:42:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/defused.com\/?p=283474"},"modified":"2023-11-16T03:42:07","modified_gmt":"2023-11-16T03:42:07","slug":"father-not-leaving-a-cafe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/defused.com\/father-not-leaving-a-cafe\/","title":{"rendered":"Father Asks If He’s Wrong For Not Leaving A Cafe Because His Son Was Babbling"},"content":{"rendered":"

OP and their wife enjoyed coffee with their 8-month-old son at a cafe near a park. An older couple complained about the baby’s babbling and asked them to leave. OP defended their right to be there, leading to an argument.<\/p>\n

This scenario revolves around a clash between a young family enjoying a day out with their baby and an older couple who found the baby’s noise disruptive. The incident highlights a common dilemma \u2013 how to balance the rights of parents with the expectations of others in public spaces. OP’s reaction, while defensive, stems from a desire to assert their right to enjoy a day out as a family without being made to feel unwelcome. The differing perspectives on this situation are evident in the comments, with some siding with OP and others suggesting ignoring the comment might have been a better response. It’s a classic case of differing opinions on what’s acceptable in public spaces.<\/p>\n

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OP and their wife had coffee with their 8-month-old baby. An older couple complained about the baby’s noise, leading to an argument. OP seeks judgment.<\/h2>\n

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The older couple voiced annoyance at parents with babies, and the woman asked OP to quiet their son. OP tried but found it challenging.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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The woman asked OP to leave so she could enjoy her day. An argument ensued, with OP criticizing her for making parents feel bad in a public place.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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OP’s wife advised against the personal comment, and a coworker suggested ignoring the woman. OP’s wife now fears their reactions, and OP seeks judgment. AITA?<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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OP appreciates the responses, clarifying the baby’s video volume and describing the toy’s noise level, which is not loud like speaker-equipped toys.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Now that you have read the story, it’s time for you to see what Redditors had to say about this. Read till the end to see what are other people’s opinions on this. Don’t forget to share your own opinion at the end of this article, too.<\/p>\n

OP had every right to defend his family’s enjoyment of a day out.<\/h2>\n

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Parents deserve to savor outings with their child without feeling unwelcome.<\/h2>\n

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You’re not the a-hole \u2013 It’s reasonable what you did.<\/h2>\n

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OP’s reaction was justified in the face of unwarranted criticism from the older couple.<\/h2>\n

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All Redditors agree that this was an NTA case.<\/h2>\n

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The older couple’s complaint was unreasonable because kids are supposed to be like that, and OP defended his family’s right to be in a public space which means nothing wrong.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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What are your thoughts on this story? What would you do, or how would you react if you were in OP’s position? You know that your feedback means a lot to us; therefore, we want you to share your thoughts in the comment section below. For more such articles, keep visiting Defused. Have a nice day!<\/p>\n

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