{"id":288619,"date":"2023-12-19T15:09:28","date_gmt":"2023-12-19T15:09:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/defused.com\/?p=288619"},"modified":"2023-12-19T15:09:31","modified_gmt":"2023-12-19T15:09:31","slug":"woman-leaves-her-sisters-son","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/defused.com\/woman-leaves-her-sisters-son\/","title":{"rendered":"Woman Leaves Her Sister’s Son And Moves To America, Gives The Child To His Dad, Drama Ensues"},"content":{"rendered":"

In this family story, the close bond between two sisters faced an unexpected test when one of them, married with three children, assumed responsibility for her sister’s son. Initially, the plan was for the nephew to stay for a short period until his mother, the sister, returned from an opportunity to work in Canada. However, as the years passed, the sister showed little effort to make arrangements for her son, even as the family faced challenges such as the passing of their mother. The tension escalated when the sister, aware of the impending move to America, seemingly cut off communication and left her son in the care of her sister.<\/p>\n

Faced with the responsibility of both her children and her nephew, OP struggled with the logistical challenges of obtaining a passport for the child. As the day approached for the family to move to America, the sister, blocked on all channels of communication, suddenly reappeared, expressing anger and frustration at the decision to involve her estranged husband in taking custody of their child.<\/p>\n

So keep on scrolling down below to read the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end otherwise, you won’t be able to let us know who’s the A-hole here.<\/p>\n

1. OP says that she and her sister have always been close and they did everything together, OP is married and has three kids while her sister has only one. In 2020 OP’s sister got the opportunity to work in Canada so she asked if her son could live with her. He was one year old at that time.<\/h3>\n

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2. OP said okay, and two to three years passed by her sister didn’t make any effort to come see him<\/h3>\n

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3. In April OP lost her mother so her sister called to check up on all of them, and OP made a plan that they would move to America right after her second oldest finishes IGCSEs<\/h3>\n

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4. OP and her husband stayed at home with his nephew and during those weeks while their kids were in the Phillippines she told her that in a few weeks, they would be moving OP called and texted her loads of times but she blocked her so OP decided to contact her husband and explain everything to him and he decided to take him in.<\/h3>\n

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5. When her sister got to know this she called OP and started shouting at the top of her lungs and said how selfish and wicked OP was and how could she give her kid to her husband, so OP turned off her phone and took her kids and headed straight to the airport.<\/h3>\n

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6. OP gave some clarification to the users about her sister’s marriage in which she said her sister was a red flag in the relationship because she would cuss him a lot and even throw stuff at him when they would be in a fight and always threatened him for divorce<\/h3>\n

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7. And when she got to know that the divorce process was expensive she decided to take it slow moreover, OP said that she did not want her child to be near him and tried everything in her power to get full custody.<\/h3>\n

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8. OP told the users that she tried getting him a passport but they needed his real parents or at least a legal guardian to do it, and OP explained to those who said she didn’t love her nephew that she loves him and treats him like he his her kid.<\/h3>\n

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9. OP says she was stuck between the choice of calling child services or giving him to his father<\/h3>\n

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10. Now OP wants to know whether she’s an A-hole or not, let’s find it out.<\/h3>\n

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11. Exactly, I mean how could she even get mad at her sister even though she abandoned her child.<\/h3>\n

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12. The nephew was not OP’s responsibility and OP gave her a lot of time to get through this problem and do something for her child, OP is no one to blame by the way.<\/h3>\n

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13. NTA<\/h3>\n

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14. OP had no other choice so she is not someone to blame<\/h3>\n

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15. This user is on point! What do you think?<\/h3>\n

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16. Exactly, she’s the one who’s selfish not OP.<\/h3>\n

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17. OP you don’t need to feel guilty because you did nothing to be felt guilty<\/h3>\n

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