{"id":300753,"date":"2024-02-07T09:28:39","date_gmt":"2024-02-07T09:28:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/defused.com\/?p=300753"},"modified":"2024-02-07T09:28:42","modified_gmt":"2024-02-07T09:28:42","slug":"mother-tells-sister-to-pick-her-dog","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/defused.com\/mother-tells-sister-to-pick-her-dog\/","title":{"rendered":"Mother Tells Sister To Pick Her Dog From Parent’s House Because She Doesn’t Want Dog Near Her Baby"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

In 2016, OP’s nephew adopted a dog, leaving it with OP’s parents. The dog poses various problems, from attempting to bite and jumping on OP to creating mess and disrupting the baby’s naps. While OP’s elderly, partially blind mother diligently cares for the dog, OP’s dad and sister are reluctant to keep it. With a 7-month-old baby in the picture, OP decided to stop visiting if the dog remains. The decision stems from feeling neglected and upset, as it seems the family prioritizes the dog over their own child’s well-being. The situation raises concerns about the family dynamic and the choices being made regarding responsibilities and priorities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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OP’s nephew adopted a dog in 2016, leaving it with OP’s parents. Sister and nephew won’t care for the dog, causing issues now that OP has a 7-month-old baby.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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The dog causes chaos \u2013 tries to bite, jumps, leaves fur, and disrupts OP’s baby’s naps. OP’s elderly, partially blind mother is left caring for the dog.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n
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OP’s parents disagree about the dog. OP, upset by feeling neglected, wonders if they are prioritizing the dog over their child, leading to a decision to stop visiting.<\/h2>\n\n\n
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This story shows that sometimes, people might forget important things, like taking care of a big dog. The dog causes problems, and it’s making the person with the baby feel sad. The family needs to decide what is more important \u2013 keeping the dog or making sure the baby is safe and happy. It’s essential for everyone to talk and find a solution that works for everyone, including the baby. Taking care of each other is crucial, and the story highlights the importance of making choices that keep the family, especially the little ones, safe and happy.<\/p>\n

Now that you have read the story, it’s time for you to see what Redditors had to say about this. Read till the end to see what are other people’s opinions on this. Don’t forget to share your own opinion at the end of this article.<\/p>\n

Choosing not to visit just because of a dog seems a bit extreme.<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

It’s unfair to blame the dog when a compromise could be reached.<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Consider finding a solution that works for everyone instead of making ultimatums.<\/h2>\n\n\n
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OP is the a-hole in everyone’s eyes.<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Prioritizing your discomfort over your family’s love for the dog is selfish.<\/h2>\n\n\n
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You’re in the wrong here.<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Your family may have valid reasons for wanting to keep the dog.<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Ironic but true.<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Communication is key; discuss the issues and find a resolution together.<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Not visiting just because of the dog could strain family relationships unnecessarily.<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Good one.<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Let that sink in.<\/h2>\n\n\n
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That’s hypocrite behavior.<\/h2>\n\n\n
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She cant be the babysitter.<\/h2>\n\n\n
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The dog is her friend.<\/h2>\n\n\n
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YTA for this.<\/h2>\n\n\n
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