‘you shouldn’t have worn that’<\/em> as it takes away the power of responsibility from a guy.<\/h2>\n<\/p>\n
Quite a lot applauded her for thinking on her feet and getting out of there as fast as she could.<\/h2>\n
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Many bartenders are told to suck it up as if it is in their job description.<\/h2>\n
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Some even shared their own stories which left us with dread in the pit of our stomach.<\/h2>\n
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Nobody should have to do anything to ‘be safe’. It should never be a woman’s responsibility for a man’s action.<\/h2>\n
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We never want to herd all men into one box and we aren’t saying men don’t go through this as well.<\/h2>\n
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But as evidenced by the comments, the majority of the victims are women.<\/h2>\n
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They clearly did not take it as seriously as they should have.<\/h2>\n
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It was her survival instincts kicking in.<\/h2>\n
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This comment elaborates the subject perfectly. It’s far too many men who think acting like this is okay.<\/h2>\n
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Every gender has its own problems but this is quite true in every facet.<\/h2>\n
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Let your opinion be known in the comments below about this issue and how we as a society can go about solving it. Don’t forget to share this as people need to accept that this sort of thing still happens every day and we need to shine a light on it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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