But there are some things that you don’t come across every day. This is one of them.<\/p>\n
A guy recently asked the community if he’s the asshole because he got mad at his girlfriend for “paying $50 for an old as shit purse”, so to quote.<\/p>\n
It all started when his girlfriend didn’t want to spend a lot of money on designer purse so instead she found a vintage one online for even less than half the amount for the new one. So what’s the big deal, right? Well for this guy, it is. Check out the whole story below.<\/p>\n
So, here’s what he said.<\/h2>\n\n\n![\"\"](\"data:image\/svg+xml;charset=utf-8,%3Csvg)
<\/figure>\n\n\nAfter the argument with his girlfriend, he talked to a female friend about it. You’ll be amazed at what she said.<\/h2>\n\n\n<\/figure>\n\n\nWon’t you just love to know what the internet had to say about this?<\/h2>\n\n\nDoes… does he know how much purses cost? $50 is a fucking STEAL<\/p>— Mara Wilson (@MaraWilson) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nGuess he got his answer, huh?<\/h2>\n\n\nShe only paid $50 and you\u2019re mad about it??? That\u2019s such a steal! YTA. pic.twitter.com\/LNQXrZM5Dd<\/a><\/p>— Jen (@such_hockey_wow) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nYou just can’t win from women, my friend.<\/h2>\n\n\nthis is so chaotic for so many reasons, but my favorite reason is that he's talking about her buying a COACH bag. Coach bags are some of the most durable bags you can buy. They're like a 10 year investment piece. I have one my mom bought when she was in college back in the 80s.<\/p>— Kayla Ancrum \u2728ICARUS coming Winter 2024!\u2728 (@KaylaAncrum) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nI second that. Every time a guy buys something, it’s always reasonable. Even if he’s not going to use it!<\/h2>\n\n\nWhat is it with straight men that their gfs\/wifes hobbies or interests are always "dumb" or "a waste of money"???? Jfc it's HER OWN MONEY, I cannot believe he's throwing a fit over HER $50<\/p>— memories of butter (@isthisshade) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nSo, are you with the girlfriend or against her?<\/h2>\n\n\n\u201cThe only reason she\u2019s mad is because she knows she\u2019s wrong.\u201d pic.twitter.com\/xKwNPXbbtp<\/a><\/p>— ella dawson (@brosandprose) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nBeing sarcastic, are we?<\/h2>\n\n\n pic.twitter.com\/AStsVZ8zW2<\/a><\/p>— Am I the Asshole? (@AITA_online) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nWe all love a good roast.<\/h2>\n\n\nI lived with one of these for a bit, and what he really meant was he wanted me to spend my discretionary fun money on things that he could use too (his purchases were not subject to this scrutiny).<\/p>— Sarah (@sosomanysarahs) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nPoll time.<\/h2>\n\n\nWho's in the wrong?<\/p>— Donut Interns (@DonutInterns) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nSo, I guess we know what the majority of people thinks.<\/h2>\n\n\n pic.twitter.com\/c8eC4NpuSg<\/a><\/p>— SodapopCurtis (@sasser826) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nAnd what did you think? Was the boyfriend’s argument fair? Share your thoughts in the comments below.<\/p> \t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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<\/figure>\n\n\nAfter the argument with his girlfriend, he talked to a female friend about it. You’ll be amazed at what she said.<\/h2>\n\n\n<\/figure>\n\n\nWon’t you just love to know what the internet had to say about this?<\/h2>\n\n\nDoes… does he know how much purses cost? $50 is a fucking STEAL<\/p>— Mara Wilson (@MaraWilson) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nGuess he got his answer, huh?<\/h2>\n\n\nShe only paid $50 and you\u2019re mad about it??? That\u2019s such a steal! YTA. pic.twitter.com\/LNQXrZM5Dd<\/a><\/p>— Jen (@such_hockey_wow) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nYou just can’t win from women, my friend.<\/h2>\n\n\nthis is so chaotic for so many reasons, but my favorite reason is that he's talking about her buying a COACH bag. Coach bags are some of the most durable bags you can buy. They're like a 10 year investment piece. I have one my mom bought when she was in college back in the 80s.<\/p>— Kayla Ancrum \u2728ICARUS coming Winter 2024!\u2728 (@KaylaAncrum) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nI second that. Every time a guy buys something, it’s always reasonable. Even if he’s not going to use it!<\/h2>\n\n\nWhat is it with straight men that their gfs\/wifes hobbies or interests are always "dumb" or "a waste of money"???? Jfc it's HER OWN MONEY, I cannot believe he's throwing a fit over HER $50<\/p>— memories of butter (@isthisshade) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nSo, are you with the girlfriend or against her?<\/h2>\n\n\n\u201cThe only reason she\u2019s mad is because she knows she\u2019s wrong.\u201d pic.twitter.com\/xKwNPXbbtp<\/a><\/p>— ella dawson (@brosandprose) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nBeing sarcastic, are we?<\/h2>\n\n\n pic.twitter.com\/AStsVZ8zW2<\/a><\/p>— Am I the Asshole? (@AITA_online) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nWe all love a good roast.<\/h2>\n\n\nI lived with one of these for a bit, and what he really meant was he wanted me to spend my discretionary fun money on things that he could use too (his purchases were not subject to this scrutiny).<\/p>— Sarah (@sosomanysarahs) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nPoll time.<\/h2>\n\n\nWho's in the wrong?<\/p>— Donut Interns (@DonutInterns) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nSo, I guess we know what the majority of people thinks.<\/h2>\n\n\n pic.twitter.com\/c8eC4NpuSg<\/a><\/p>— SodapopCurtis (@sasser826) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nAnd what did you think? Was the boyfriend’s argument fair? Share your thoughts in the comments below.<\/p> \t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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<\/figure>\n\n\nWon’t you just love to know what the internet had to say about this?<\/h2>\n\n\nDoes… does he know how much purses cost? $50 is a fucking STEAL<\/p>— Mara Wilson (@MaraWilson) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nGuess he got his answer, huh?<\/h2>\n\n\nShe only paid $50 and you\u2019re mad about it??? That\u2019s such a steal! YTA. pic.twitter.com\/LNQXrZM5Dd<\/a><\/p>— Jen (@such_hockey_wow) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nYou just can’t win from women, my friend.<\/h2>\n\n\nthis is so chaotic for so many reasons, but my favorite reason is that he's talking about her buying a COACH bag. Coach bags are some of the most durable bags you can buy. They're like a 10 year investment piece. I have one my mom bought when she was in college back in the 80s.<\/p>— Kayla Ancrum \u2728ICARUS coming Winter 2024!\u2728 (@KaylaAncrum) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nI second that. Every time a guy buys something, it’s always reasonable. Even if he’s not going to use it!<\/h2>\n\n\nWhat is it with straight men that their gfs\/wifes hobbies or interests are always "dumb" or "a waste of money"???? Jfc it's HER OWN MONEY, I cannot believe he's throwing a fit over HER $50<\/p>— memories of butter (@isthisshade) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nSo, are you with the girlfriend or against her?<\/h2>\n\n\n\u201cThe only reason she\u2019s mad is because she knows she\u2019s wrong.\u201d pic.twitter.com\/xKwNPXbbtp<\/a><\/p>— ella dawson (@brosandprose) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nBeing sarcastic, are we?<\/h2>\n\n\n pic.twitter.com\/AStsVZ8zW2<\/a><\/p>— Am I the Asshole? (@AITA_online) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nWe all love a good roast.<\/h2>\n\n\nI lived with one of these for a bit, and what he really meant was he wanted me to spend my discretionary fun money on things that he could use too (his purchases were not subject to this scrutiny).<\/p>— Sarah (@sosomanysarahs) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nPoll time.<\/h2>\n\n\nWho's in the wrong?<\/p>— Donut Interns (@DonutInterns) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nSo, I guess we know what the majority of people thinks.<\/h2>\n\n\n pic.twitter.com\/c8eC4NpuSg<\/a><\/p>— SodapopCurtis (@sasser826) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\nAnd what did you think? Was the boyfriend’s argument fair? Share your thoughts in the comments below.<\/p> \t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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Does… does he know how much purses cost? $50 is a fucking STEAL<\/p>— Mara Wilson (@MaraWilson) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\n She only paid $50 and you\u2019re mad about it??? That\u2019s such a steal! YTA. pic.twitter.com\/LNQXrZM5Dd<\/a><\/p>— Jen (@such_hockey_wow) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\n this is so chaotic for so many reasons, but my favorite reason is that he's talking about her buying a COACH bag. Coach bags are some of the most durable bags you can buy. They're like a 10 year investment piece. I have one my mom bought when she was in college back in the 80s.<\/p>— Kayla Ancrum \u2728ICARUS coming Winter 2024!\u2728 (@KaylaAncrum) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\n What is it with straight men that their gfs\/wifes hobbies or interests are always "dumb" or "a waste of money"???? Jfc it's HER OWN MONEY, I cannot believe he's throwing a fit over HER $50<\/p>— memories of butter (@isthisshade) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\n \u201cThe only reason she\u2019s mad is because she knows she\u2019s wrong.\u201d pic.twitter.com\/xKwNPXbbtp<\/a><\/p>— ella dawson (@brosandprose) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\n pic.twitter.com\/AStsVZ8zW2<\/a><\/p>— Am I the Asshole? (@AITA_online) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\n I lived with one of these for a bit, and what he really meant was he wanted me to spend my discretionary fun money on things that he could use too (his purchases were not subject to this scrutiny).<\/p>— Sarah (@sosomanysarahs) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\n Who's in the wrong?<\/p>— Donut Interns (@DonutInterns) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\n pic.twitter.com\/c8eC4NpuSg<\/a><\/p>— SodapopCurtis (@sasser826) March 3, 2020<\/a><\/blockquote>\n\n\n And what did you think? Was the boyfriend’s argument fair? Share your thoughts in the comments below.<\/p> \t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Relationship advice anyone? Apparently, there is a whole AITA community on Reddit that stands for “Am I the asshole” and people are giving advice on absolutely everything to those in need for free! Say, you need to know if you are being a total jerk towards your dog. Bam! You’ve got it. But there are […] More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":10355,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[553,134],"tags":[826,248,429,1102,66],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/AITA-50-for-old-shit-purse.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8943"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8943"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8943\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10355"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8943"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8943"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/defused.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8943"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}Guess he got his answer, huh?<\/h2>\n\n\n
You just can’t win from women, my friend.<\/h2>\n\n\n
I second that. Every time a guy buys something, it’s always reasonable. Even if he’s not going to use it!<\/h2>\n\n\n
So, are you with the girlfriend or against her?<\/h2>\n\n\n
Being sarcastic, are we?<\/h2>\n\n\n
We all love a good roast.<\/h2>\n\n\n
Poll time.<\/h2>\n\n\n
So, I guess we know what the majority of people thinks.<\/h2>\n\n\n