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Rules are rules, even if you are a friend.
Suppose a person is holding an event and you are invited as a precious guest because the host likes you. Of course, the host will have a plan set up for the day with one event taking place after another. In order for a smooth execution of events to take place, the host often applies some restrictions, some rules are set in place that must be abided by all guests to avoid any potential issues. As someone who has been given the importance to be invited as a guest, it is your duty to abide by all those rules and do your part to make the event a success. Once your job is done, you are not supposed to care about what the others do, your focus should then be on the food.
The Reddit story we have got for you guys today is shared by a woman who had her wedding coming up. She also invited her really good friend on the big day. The key factor to note here is that the bride made it very clear to all the guests to not bring along their kids. It was a set rule that no kids are allowed.
Yet that really good friend of OP’s brought her 2-year-old to the wedding. According to her, she couldn’t manage to get a sitter for the baby. The baby kept crying through the event. Ultimately OP had to kick her friend out of the wedding. The matter was posted on the sacred community of AITA. The bride was curious to know if what she did to her friend was right or not.
Scroll down below to read the story and enjoy!
1. A big rule got broken at OP’s wedding and she wasn’t happy about it.
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2. OP’s friend couldn’t a babysitter for her little one and also didn’t want to upset OP by not attending the wedding, so she decided to bring her 2 -year-old along.
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3. The child kept crying and creating a disturbance for the event managers as well as the guests.
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4. OP seems eager to do something about the situation.
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5. The bridesmaid decided to handle the situation.
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6. They got told the baby is living soon.
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7. The baby hadn’t and kept being annoying as OP tied the knot. Surely OP must’ve felt so angry.
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8. It was ultimately decided to ask her friend, along with her child, to leave the wedding event.
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9. This was bound to happen.
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10. Oh dear, no one seems happy with what happened that day.
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11. The fact that OP kicked her friend out turned a lot of people against her and she is curious to know if she did the right thing or not.
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OP was NTA. Rules are rules no matter who you are. If she says the rule didn’t apply to her because she wasn’t haven’t the best of periods in her life during those days, she is a bit messed up in the head. Yes her husband left her but I am sure she has at least someone out there she could trust with her baby for a couple of hours. This was inconsiderate behavior.
12. I know you too wanted this detail. Gladly someone asked and OP responded.
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Here are some of the comments shared on the story:
13. She should’ve discussed the situation with OP beforehand and I am sure they would’ve come up with a solution.
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14. You brake the rule and then proceed to shift the blame. Such a terrible move.
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15. Ignorance of the law is no excuse and that day the law was to not bring your children to the wedding.
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16. And I am sure OP would’ve understood.
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I really hope you guys enjoyed this one. What do you guys think., was OP the AH in this story or NTA? Share your votes and thoughts in the comments section down below.
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