Hussain
In a recent encounter on the neighborhood app “Nextdoor,” a pregnant woman generously offered to donate a substantial collection of baby girl clothes ranging from newborn to 18 months. Another expectant mother, living approximately 50 minutes away in a different state, expressed interest in the donation but found it challenging to make the trip to collect the items herself. OP inquired if there was any assistance available for transporting the heavy bags of clothes. Still, the recipient’s boyfriend was unavailable, and the donor’s husband had reservations about the safety of the area.
The situation escalated when the OP’s husband declined to make the two-hour round trip to deliver the items due to safety concerns. He offered instead to help load the clothes into the recipient’s car if she could arrange to come. Frustrated by this response, the recipient suggested that OP use a ride-sharing service to deliver the items, leading to further tension between the two parties. Ultimately, OP’s husband decided to seek out a local shelter or donation center to contribute the clothes, prompting a heated exchange between the two pregnant women, with the recipient expressing disappointment in the donor’s willingness to help those in need.
Keep on scrolling down below to read this story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end.
1. OP recently found out that she’s pregnant with a boy and as she had a baby girl before she has a lot of girl’s clothes, and she and her husband decided to donate everything to those who need it.
2. OP made a post on the Nextdoor app and a woman currently pregnant with a girl texted OP but the problem is she lives far away in another state, and she even told OP that she can’t come and OP needs to drop everything off.
3. OP said that neither of them could carry it and asked her if there was anyone who could pick it up but she suggested that OP’s husband should drive
4. OP’s husband said that he’s totally against her and their daughter driving there alone as it is not a safe area moreover, he said he will help to stuff her car if she comes.
5. OP’s husband got pissed and told OP that he will find a sheltered place and donate everything there since the woman was acting weird
6. Now OP wants to know whether she’s an A-hole
7. Exactly, since it’s free she needs to come and pick it up. It’s not OP’s responsibility to deliver it.
8. She can take an Uber and come there if she needs it so severely otherwise, some people really need it.
9. NTA
10. Users think that probably she ain’t even pregnant and maybe she wants to resell
11. it is true she is being super entitled
12. OP should find a women’s shelter and donate it there
13. Everyone said OP is not an A-hole which is true
14. But sorry beggars can’t be choosy
15. This user said situations like this make her not to donate on sites anymore
16. Husband is absolutely right about safety
17. Indeed she’s acting like she’s doing OP a favor
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