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Everyone deserves a break from their relationship and should hangout with their family or friends sometimes.
Being in a relationship is all fun and games but being with each other all the time gets tiring sometimes and you and your significant other deserve a break and enjoy life alone. You can go out and enjoy “me time”. Or, you can have a girl’s night or boy’s night to spend some time with your social circle where your significant others would not be allowed. A Reddit user took it to Reddit to share his story. OP and his friends always hold a boy’s night where only boys are allowed and the point of having this boy’s night is to spend some time out of their relationship and their partners have a girl’s night the same night. OP’s brother started joining them and wanted his boyfriend to be a part of this night but OP refused. OP’s brother thinks he is excluding him because of being gay but this is not what OP thinks. Scroll down to get into the complete story.
1. OP and his friends hold a boy’s night once a month. OP’s brother started joining them once he turned 18.
2. Whenever OP and his friends have a boy’s night, their gfs have a girl’s night so they can enjoy life outside of the relationship.
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3. OP’s brother wanted his boyfriend to come to the boy’s night and OP told him that it would not be okay for him to join the boy’s night.
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4. OP’s boyfriend thinks that he does not want his bf to come along when it is not the reason.
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5. OP’s brother is refusing to join the boy’s night and now he wants OP to invite his bf.
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6. OP has offered this reason why he can be TAH:
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Now, that OP has shared his side of the story. Scroll down to read what Redditors think if OP is TAH or NTA.
7. Everyone should have a separate social life and should spend some time away from their partners.
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8. The point of having a boy’s night is simple and it’s because they do not want any relationship drama and OP’s brother should get it.
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9. This girl’s gf invites her to the girl’s night but she always declines because she believes everyone should spend some time alone with their bffs.
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10. We should know and learn how to take away the gender stereotype façade.
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11. OP and his brother should give it some time and talk about it.
12. Call it a “no partner night” instead of a girl’s or boy’s night.
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13. This is why brother and his bf might feel left out:
14. OP’s brother and his bf would feel excluded and would look out for some other friendship groups if their group would function like this:
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What do you guys think? Should OP and his friends include his brother’s bf? Comment down to let us know your opinion.