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Some people don’t deserve children at all.
Marriage is a crucial decision in one’s life. You cannot just wake up and decide to marry someone right off the bat. It is a very patient process. If someone wants their marriage to last, they have to commit to the idea of fully maturing up and taking a step that would change their life significantly. Marriage is a responsibility and it is based on growing up to realise that your life isn’t only centred around you and your needs. One has to be really careful before making this decision in their life and they have to be mentally prepared for whatever or however their married life lasts. And it’s so common for people to get separated or divorced but that, in no way, means that you abandon your child. It’s your child after all. People tend to forget they have children and completely abandon their younglings which is just an awful thing to do if you ask us. This only makes the life of the child miserable and confusing and can lead them to have a lot of issues, especially the abandonment kind.
Today’s story is based on a girl who was about to get married and her father even failed to tell his parents that he has a daughter. The grandparents took control of the situation and shamed their son for being absolutely ignorant of his own child. Let’s have a look.
Op tells us about her father and how he was well-off enough that he asked Op’s mother to quit her job and stay at home. However, the mother refused and this led to creating issues between the both of them which ended up in a divorce.
Op further tells us how her grandparents (from her dad’s side) didn’t even know about her. Her father failed to tell them about her meanwhile her grandparents from her mother’s side were very humble and cool. The father never paid any child support.
Op tells us about how she found the love of her life and decided to get married.
Her grandparents eventually found out about her and decided to move to Canada to meet their grandchild and to congratulate her on the coming wedding.
Upon finding out what their son did they were furious.
Eventually, they calculated all the unpaid dues from the fathers side and decided to give them to Op as a present.
The father had absolutely mad upon hearing this.
He told Op that it would cause a financial crack in his current family.
Op didn’t really need it but…
It would help her mother retire.
Op gives us updates about the situation.
Grandparents setting up the fund.
The real reason for the divorce.
She updates her grandparents.
Op tells us about her mom and her friend.
Op tells us about her plans after she receives the hefty sum.
This is what Reddit had to say.
People told her to spend all the money partying.
This person told Op the perfect strategy.
And this is what this guy had to say.
And with that, we conclude this story. Let us know your thoughts on it in the comment section below.