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Fathers can be really sensitive when it comes to the protection and safety of their daughters. You have to agree, they have a slight bias towards daughters, always, as compared to sons. They want their daughters to have the best life. When the time comes when their girls start experiencing the feeling of love, dads tend to get a bit protective because they don’t want anyone to be unfair to their little girls, they don’t want anyone to exploit them or break their hearts. That is why we always see dads being slightly strict, and at times rude, on their first meetings with their daughter’s boyfriend.
In today’s story, we have a concerned father who has a 13-year-old daughter. The concern is regarding her love life because she is in a relationship with a 17-year-old teenager. According to the father, this age gap is too much and the two are just not in the same domain to be in a relationship. He is also worried about his daughter and her boyfriend engaging in s*xual activities, which may bring serious danger to her life.
The story moves around the father having a conversation with his daughter, and the boyfriend too. Yet, he still feels uncertain about things in his heart.
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1. OP is concerned and the matter involves his teenage daughter.
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2. The daughter’s boyfriend is 4 years older than her and the dad does not like this age gap.
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3. The dad searched his daughter’s phone to get an idea of the boyfriend and what he looked like. He ended up finding content that disgusted him.
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4. Dad tried explaining how this relationship could be problematic and may create issues.
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5. Dad then went on to enquire about the boyfriend and their history together.
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6. You just know Dad does not want them to be together but I like that he is dealing with the situation very politely.
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7. He explained how the two are not at the same level of maturity and that it would make it very difficult for things to keep working that way.
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8. It seems like the daughter is finally getting the point her dad is trying to make.
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9. Dad also found it important to ask if the two were sexually active or not.
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10. It sure is a tricky one. Legally, yes she could consent and do it.
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11. It would be bad but not as bad as the current scenario.
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12. Kids often tend to do the exact opposite of what they are told not to do, so I think OP is right here.
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13. Her sneaking behind her father’s back to meet her boyfriend may actually end up being very dangerous for her. Rebels don’t think.
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14. The boyfriend’s parents don’t know about the relationship. That is weird.
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15. The dad feels guilty for ending the relationship but at the same time, he thinks he did the right thing.
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I can understand the father’s concern here. I think the girl is a little too young to be in a relationship with a man who is about to become an adult within a year. A at the age of 17 is actually very curious and no matter how much this couple says that they will not engage in any s*xual activities, they will end up doing it. I think things would be slightly appropriate if the girl is 17 and the boy is 21. The age gap would still be 4 but the maturity levels in this age range are slightly similar.
I personally would suggest the dad makes his girl end the relationship, it is only in her best interest. She must wait, be patient, learn some lessons in life, and then select a better boyfriend at a later age.
Here’s an update OP shared on the matter:
16. The Dad made the daughter delete her MyLOL account and also gave her some advice regarding pregnancy and raising children.
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17. He also shared the terrible consequences her getting pregnant would have on her life.
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18. The father finally got to meet the boyfriend.
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19. He is making it sound like he did the daughter a favor by becoming her boyfriend.
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20. Dad is pretty certain about the fact that he does not want the boyfriend to have s*x with her daughter.
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21. The boyfriend seems pretty calm and confident in himself and says he will not engage in any s*xual conduct with OP’s daughter.
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22. THe Dad laid some further guidelines which if followed, only then will the relationship be allowed to continue.
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23. The boyfriend was ready to comply with everything and continue a smooth relationship with OP’s daughter…understanding all consequences of all the negative actions.
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