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In this story, a 26-year-old man and his fiancée have selected their wedding party, including his wife’s two brothers as groomsmen and her best friends as bridesmaids. However, the man’s younger sister, whom he has a strained relationship with due to her spoiled and demanding behavior, is not included in the bridal party. The sister, who had been diagnosed with leukemia at a young age, complains to extended family about feeling excluded from such a significant moment, leveraging her past health struggles. A couple of aunts express concern to the man, urging him to reconsider including his sister, emphasizing the potential for future reconciliation and the impact of his decision on their relationship.
Despite the pressure from his parents and sister, the man defends his choice, citing his lack of interest in a relationship with his sister and blaming his parents for enabling her behavior. The aunts, while sympathetic, leave the final decision up to the man, acknowledging the potential consequences of their relationship with his sister.
So keep on scrolling down below to read the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end.
1. OP and her fiance is getting married next year and they have already chosen their bridesmaid and groomsmen, actually OP’s fiance’s brother is his childhood best friend so they are his groomsmen and OP’s fiance has her two best friends which would be bridesmaids.
2. OP has a younger sister whom he refers to as a spoiled brat anyone will ever meet and OP’s parents handled her tantrums from the moment she was born moreover, when she was 7 she was diagnosed with leukemia after that she became even worse.
3. OP said his parents encouraged her sister’s behavior and due to this he wished he was an only child or born into a different family and OP is in no contact with her and even with his parents his contact is rare
4. Their wedding party decisions made OP’s parents and her sister pissed because they were planning what her dress would look like
5. She cried to extended family members about how hurt she got when she knew that his brother excluded her from this huge moment
6. OP was told how cruel it was to not give her sister a role in the wedding and if OP’s fiance doesn’t want her as a bridesmaid she could be grooms something
7. OP argued back and told his parents that he did not have any interest in her and they were the ones who created this monster
8. Now OP wants to know whether he’s an A-hole or not, let’s find out.
9. Well they could compromise a bit and go how OP wants them to go
10. Exactly, it’s OP’s wedding and it should happen according to him.
11. Totally and absolutely NTA!
12. People like that are entitled and they make the whole things about them
13. Literally everyone said OP is NTA not even a single person said OP is an A-hole
14. Why do such people exist? I mean don’t they feel ashamed or bothered that they are being a liability to others
15. Maybe OP should consider this
16. It somehow makes a point for her tantrums
17. What do you think, was it a wise decision?
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