It’s acceptable to be curious about someone’s preferences. To be subsequently questioned about your preferences is flattering. If this is a one-off occurrence, there is nothing particularly improper about asking the person what kind of shampoo they use.
However, it is creepy stalker behavior when someone purposefully mimics your aesthetic in what appears to be a desperate attempt to “become you.” The sister-in-law of this woman is acting up because she wants to know what brand of shampoo she uses. She bought the same bed sheets, dyed her hair the same color, and wore similar clothes. It’s naturally irritating, and commenters were rather astute in pointing out that this goes beyond what is acceptable conduct. We believe it’s pretty uncommon and weird to become so obsessed with someone’s style, or the way they dress.
Others gave some great suggestions for how to get her to stop. Some schemes were more cunning and long-lasting than others. But everyone agreed that this is incredibly bizarre. Keep on scrolling down below and see what advice people have to offer. Make sure you watch it till the end.
1. This is so much obsession here, what do you think is it normal?
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2. Now this is actually weird, she is a total copy cat.
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3. She literally cried over a petty thing
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4. I think you don’t really need to apologize to her
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5. She even stalks her, what’s her damn problem?
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6. It’s strange that people like this exist
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7. Oh this is getting interesting, let’s see what happened lol.
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8. Guess who had a new tattoo on her foot? No way man.
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9. This commentator have a next-level sense of humor
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10. See, everyone’s saying that she is not an A-hole
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11. Lovemyblklab is speaking facts here, SIL really need a therapy.
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12. See, isn’t it such a petty thing to cry on?
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13. Exactly, this is totally weird.
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14. OP’s husband needs to realize that it is kinda problem to be so obsessed with someone.
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15. People don’t need to go to this extent that you don’t need to be obsessed with someone so much that it starts irritating that person
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16. Obsessive
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17. And there were some people who had to say this
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18. NTA NTA NTA
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19. He just gave up because he knew he can’t do much about it
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20. The best advice for OP
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21. Wait, what?
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This is literally weird and strange that you get so obsessed with someone that you are making them uncomfortable because you are literally copying whatever they are doing, it is kind of dangerous, and it feels like someone is always noticing you and stalking you. We personally think that nobody would like that. Even though she was told so many times to not cross her limits and make OP uncomfortable but she didn’t listen. We hope OP has now gotten rid of her.
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