The original poster (OP) shared a painful experience of being denied the opportunity to join a music conference/competition in NYC with their high school choir due to their parents’ refusal to sign the necessary paperwork, despite having the funds and demonstrating academic responsibility. This disappointment resurfaced when their younger brother, a painter, was celebrated for having his artwork chosen for a gallery in California, prompting the parents to make travel plans, including school absence. OP grappled with feelings of frustration, jealousy, and an underlying belief that their parents may favor their brother.
Despite acknowledging their happiness for their brother, the OP was struggling with the lingering resentment and the sense of being overlooked or less valued by their parents. Seeking advice, the OP expressed a desire to overcome these negative emotions and find a way to stop resenting their family for the unequal treatment, recognizing the need to navigate complex emotions and foster a healthier mindset in their relationships.
So keep on scrolling down below to read the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end otherwise, you won’t be able to connect to the story.
1. Last year OP’s high school choir was invited to participate in a music conference in NYC and the cost per student was $1500 OP had it saved moreover, OP needed her parent’s signature and they refused to let her go because she would miss a week of school even though she had all A’s and B’s.
2. OP got sad and frustrated because she would be turning 18 after a month of getting back from the trip
3. OP’s brother is a painter and he submitted a painting to a youth artist competition his piece got chosen in a California gallery and OP’s parents were over the moon due to happiness and they made plans to fly them and see their son’s work moreover, he was also missing 3 days of his school.
4. OP said she’s not jealous of her kid brother but it felt like a knife into her stomach because her parents didn’t let her go moreover, OP loves choir more than life itself.
5. OP thought that she might need some strangers for advice because she thinks her parents love her brother more than her, let’s see what strangers have to say about this.
6. Exactly, if OP expresses her hurt and her thoughts to her parents it’ll make them think about it.
7. An advice for OP!
8. It was such a lame excuse by the way
9. I don’t think this would be the case, what do you think ladies and gentlemen?
10. I hope when OP talks it out the feedback and the response be positive
11. That’s what OP needs to do talk about this and her queries will be finished
12. But she needs clarifications, don’t you think so?
13. Just a thought to consider
14. But every art is equal
15. Golden Child?
16. Maybe or maybe not
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