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During a visit to OP’s apartment, her mother-in-law discovered an envelope from California adorned with bright kids’ stickers. Intrigued, she inquired about the sender, asking OP to share a personal truth. OP explained that she got pregnant at 15 and had a baby boy at 16, whom she chose to give up for adoption. The adoptive mother regularly sent updates every six months, including drawings and stickers from their now 6-year-old child.
The mother-in-law’s reaction was unexpected and emotional. She tearfully suggested that OP’s fiancé should consider finding a partner who hasn’t had a child before, believing the experience wouldn’t be as “special” for OP, having previously given birth. Despite her reservations, OP’s fiancé, who is aware of her past, remains committed to the upcoming May wedding. Navigating this sensitive situation, OP recognizes the importance of communicating with the fiancé’s parents compassionately, reassuring them of their dedication to the future family, and fostering understanding within the extended family.
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1. OP’s mother-in-; aw was visiting OP at their apartment and brought in their mail which she noticed an envelope postmarked from California and asked who OP knew there moreover, on the envelope there were kids’ stickers which made her curious.
2. OP decided to tell her honestly that she got pregnant at 15 had a baby boy at the age of 16 and gave him up for adoption
3. Mother-in-law started crying and said she thinks her son should find someone else because as she has a child experience before it won’t be special for her anymore
4. OP says her fiance knows about this whole baby situation and he still wants to marry her but OP wants to know how she should deal with her parents
5. It’s the fiance who wants to marry not the mother-in-law so OP shouldn’t worry about his parents
6. What do you think about this advice?
7. This makes total sense as OP didn’t have the experience to raise the child and now she would have that so it would be special for her too
8. On point!
9. It’s gonna be special, all kids are special. OP needs to stand her ground and make her understand politely.
10. She needs to grow up seriously
11. An advice OP should consider
12. Would managing the sides gonna be effective? I don’t think so it’s the Fiance whom everything depends on.
13. Shaking my head
14. The fact is that she is a ridiculous person who thinks childbirth can’t be special again
15. Love can move mountains dear and it’s just a situation if he loves her then he is surely gonna find a way to marrying her
16. Now this is beyond drama
17. All the support goes to OP
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