Malaika
Relationships aren’t easy.
They can be quite complicated at times. You have to remember to be calm towards your partner even if they annoy you sometimes. Relationships aren’t all about the honeymoon phase, they are about the compromises you make to keep things going if you truly love and respect that person. And having a relationship with a person also means looking at all their bad habits and accepting them as they are.
However, I am not saying that you should ignore everything bad your partner does. Because a lot of times these are signs that you should get out of the relationship as soon as possible. These things may not seem like much at the start but they can progress into worse things pretty quick so it always pays to be careful. As you may have guessed today’s story is about relationship problems. More specifically, it is a story from a woman asking the Internet if she is in the wrong for not paying for her boyfriend’s parents.
You can read the whole story for yourself by scrolling below.
Source: Reddit
This story starts off with some information about their relationship.
She explains their dynamics and how they have only been dating for five months.
I can already tell that this guy has some issues and it is only the start.
He is sort of checking her for financial stability.
But things went too far when he invited his parents.
He actually expected her to pay for them as well.
Rather than taking her seriously, he kept laughing at her predicament.
So she did the only thing she could do, she left.
He then proceeded to put all the blame on her.
And that is how she ended up on Reddit.
Asking people whether she made a big deal about this situation.
Honestly, I am not even surprised. We can all tell from the get-go that this guy has red sirens all around him. While I may not be an expert on relationships, even I can see that this guy is not worth it. She does on to mention that he ahs helped her a lot but that doesn’t mean that she has to deal with his bull. And it sort of feels like he is just taking advantage of her. And if someone always badtalks when it comes to all their exes, then that can be quite the big red flag.
As you can guess, people were 100% on her side.
Most were surprised that she was dating him in the first place.
While she did provide some extra information about her boyfriend.
It didn’t help him image at all.
Some people even went as far as to point out all the red flags in the story.
While others reminded her that this is a pattern.
And that she needs to run from this guy as soon as possible.
He didn’t even tell her this beforehand.
It is pretty clear that he is suing her as his ATM.
It is honestly disgusting behavior.
And I hope that she leaves him.
Even though I always recommend talking it out first.
Some situations are just not salvageable.
What are your thoughts on this story? Has something similar ever happened to you? If so, what did you do? Did you pay for them or did you leave your partner? Let us know in the comments below and don’t forget to share this tory with your friends so they can join in the discussion as well.