Wife Gets Upset Because Husband Wants To Workout When He Gets Home Instead Of Helping Her

In today’s world, parenting is assumed to be a tough job and both parents have to spare time to raise their children properly. One of them has to sacrifice their career to look after their kids especially when they are young and need all the attention. Managing the house and the kids is a twenty-four-hour job, and it is not possible to put all the responsibility on one of them. Most mothers willingly stay at home and try to accomplish their duties as housewives. Many of them work from home to stay connected with their jobs when their kids start to go to school. Sometimes parents miss their own time together in all these engagements, but one who stays at home feels it more.

OP’s wife had to remain at home to look after their three-year-old daughter, who started preschool. OP looked after her daughter in the morning so that her mother could rest for some more hours. OP worked out in the evening after coming back from the office, which was not appreciated by her wife. Read the full story down below and share your comments about it.

Source: Reddit

1. OP wanted to ask if it was wrong of him to work out after coming back from his office.

2. OP took care of her three-year-old daughter in the morning so that her wife could sleep a little more. He prepared her daughter for preschool and then went to work.

3. OP did workouts every day after coming back from the office for an hour in his garage.

4. OP and his wife got into a fight because she felt that he wasn’t spending enough time at home.

5. OP was spending his evening working out because he was using his morning hours to look after her daughter.

6. OP understood her wife’s situation and had great respect for the parents who were bound to stay at home for their kids.

Now that you have read the story, it’s time for you to see what Redditors had to say about this. Read till the end to see what are other people’s opinions on this.

7. I agreed with the user, she was missing her husband, who was busy the whole day following his routine.

8. Yes, If OP encourages her wife to work out together in their living room, she will not feel alone,

9. OP can solve this problem by discussing it with his wife because she might feel isolated staying all day at home.

10. Yes, this user is right, OP’s wife waited for his husband all day at home and wanted to be with him after he came back from the office.

11. It is a reality that no matter how many friends and family you have, you always miss your partner’s company.

12. Long-distance relationships are so depressing despite texting messages and video calls.

13. Yes, working out together is a great idea to spend quality time with each other.

14. OP and his wife spent most of their free time handling their little kid, so they had no time for other stuff.

15. I agree with the user. It is more exhausting to work from home if you also taking care of your house.

16. When you love your partner, you miss him even though you have spent all day working.

17. Most of the kids follow the routine of their parents, and OP’s wife wants his help with the child.

18. It is seen that little kids stay happy with their fathers, playing and chilling around, but it is tough for mothers to look after them.

19. Yes, this user has a valid point. If mothers stay at home for their kids then fathers should be thankful to them for working the whole day.

20. OP just mentioned “time for herself”, but it did not explain “her relaxing time” or time to “work from home”.

OP had to manage his time to satisfy his wife who stayed at home to tackle all the work and the toddler. She needed some time together as she was sleeping in the morning while her husband was looking after her daughter. OP spent all the evening in the garage working out so it would be better if he moved his exercise equipment inside the house near his family. As they couldn’t work out together because of their daughter, it would be good if he did cardio in the living room and other hard-core exercises in the garage. What is your opinion about the situation OP was facing and the solution to his problem? Share the story with your family and friends and stay tuned to Defused for more.