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In this story, a woman and her husband, married for 8 years with two daughters, experience strains in their relationship. The husband displays erratic behavior, particularly during times when acquaintances have baby boys. Over the past year, his mood swings intensified, leading to heated arguments over trivial matters. During one episode, he berates his wife, calling her names and expressing regret over the absence of a son, even making distressing comments about ending his lineage.
The wife is concerned about the impact on their daughters and seeks advice on how to address the situation. Despite their education in science, the husband attributes their lack of a son to factors like pH value and acidic vag**al discharge, reflecting unfounded beliefs. The wife contemplates the effect on her children and expresses reluctance to consider divorce due to her husband’s positive parenting qualities when not in a depressive state. She also faces challenges in her support system, having become more introverted since leaving her job and moving to a new country.
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1. OP and his husband have been married for 8 years and they have two lovely daughters OP is a stay-at-home mom, OP said every time her husband sees a baby boy in their acquaintance he goes into depression and does not talk to the three of them for days. Moreover, OP said he has been showing extreme mood swings for the past year.
2. The husband said to OP that she’s a freeloader since she doesn’t earn now and even said that she ruined his life by ending his lineage
3. And when OP told him to shut up he found it disrespectful, OP said first he was treating her with silence then it went on to shouting at OP and even blaming her
4. OP said that their kids are her priority and she asks the users how to make him understand that the behavior he is exhibiting can break the family
5. OP thanked users for their overwhelming support moreover, she said the reason for not thinking about leaving him was because he’s a good father when he’s not depressed
6. OP said the reason she mentioned their education was that educated people believe in science and yet he says it’s her fault
7. OP said he’s a feminist for his daughters, colleagues, cousins, and every other woman except OP.
8. OP said the reasons she’s avoiding divorce is because he’s a good father and she doesn’t wanna snatch it away from her kids
9. The husband is close to her 7-year-old daughter and even goes cycling with her but when he sees a man playing with his son he gets upset
10. OP said she was an extrovert before her second daughter was born and then she moved to the US and she became introvert
11. OP said she would like to thank every Redditor who has commented and she’s grateful for their support
12. This user said it is a nightmare for OP to imagine her daughters in her situation
13. People said it’s his fault that they don’t have a son it’s not OP’s fault, shed your thoughts about this?
14. But he’s a sweet father OP mentioned maybe getting out is not a wise choice for OP and her children
15. This user suggested OP get out of this and go to therapy immediately as he has already broken his family
16. Maybe this user is right!
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