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Woman Asks If She’s Wrong For Not Letting Her Miracle Baby Niece To Be Flower Girl

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In a recent Reddit post, an individual using the pseudonym OP shared a compelling narrative that delves into the intricate world of family dynamics. OP found themselves entangled in a difficult decision when their brother and sister-in-law (SIL) requested that their niece be the flower girl at OP’s upcoming wedding. This seemingly innocent request unraveled a complex web of emotions, expectations, and conflicting loyalties, shedding light on the delicate balance of love and commitments within a family.

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The backstory reveals that OP’s brother and SIL had struggled for years to conceive a child due to SIL’s medical condition. Despite facing numerous obstacles and enduring heart-wrenching miscarriages, they eventually experienced the joy of welcoming their long-awaited daughter. Understandably, this miraculous event brought immense happiness to the entire family. However, as time went on, the couple’s constant recounting of their fertility struggles began to overshadow other family moments, leaving some relatives feeling overwhelmed by the repetitive narrative.

Against this backdrop, OP found themselves planning their own wedding, a joyous occasion that should ideally be free of controversy. OP’s fiancé had two children from a previous marriage, with the daughter expressing her heartfelt desire to be the flower girl when the couple first announced their engagement a year ago. Touched by her enthusiasm, OP and their fiancé readily agreed, granting her the role she had long dreamed of.

Keep on scrolling down to read the full story in OP’s own words and we will see you at the end of the article.

1. Is OP an A-hole for not letting her miracle baby niece be her flower girl at her wedding? Keep on scrolling down to find out.

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2. OP’s older brother and sister-in-law just welcomed their first child!

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3. OP says the baby has been the center of attention on every family occasion

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4. OP is getting married in the spring and her brother and Sister-in-law approached her about having the niece to be the flower girl!

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5. OP’s fiance has two children from his previous marriage

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6. OP explained this to her Sister-in-Law when she asked OP about her niece being the flower girl

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7. OP said no because she had already promised her stepdaughter

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8. OP’s sister-in-law told OP to honor the niece in some way!

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9. OP got fed up and snapped and said this…

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10. She started crying and said that OP doesn’t love her one and only niece!

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11. OP’s mom had been trying  to stay neutral

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12. OP is firm in her decision and her fiance is thankful that OP didn’t let his daughter down!

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13. Exactly she’s their miracle baby, not OP’s.

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14. Exactly your wedding your choice

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15. This Redditor is spitting facts!

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16. True sister-in-law surely needs to get some counseling

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17. This Redditor says that OP’s family is cracked in the head if they think that you should treat someone else’s kid like they are your kid!

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18. That sure is going to be one messed-up kid

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19. Couldn’t agree more that would cause more issues

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20. This Redditor feels sorry for the miracle baby!

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