OP’s (42) son (Jay – 18) and his girlfriend (Kate – 18) are expecting a baby in July. Recently moving into their own apartment, OP gave them the baby items purchased. The baby is breech, and a C-section is scheduled for July 3rd. OP offered to drive them to the hospital, but they declined. Kate stated no visitors during the hospital stay, allowing only her older sister. OP suggested a compromise, but Kate insisted on privacy. Feeling taken advantage of, OP’s son and Kate label OP as the asshole. Is OP in the wrong? In the edit, OP realizes mistakes and plans to apologize for peacekeeping.
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OP’s son and his girlfriend are expecting a baby in July. Despite reservations, OP is excited about meeting the new addition.
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OP shares that Kate’s family kicked her out when they found out about the pregnancy. Despite initial living arrangements, OP is proud that Jay and Kate got their own place.
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OP has provided a fully furnished nursery and all shower gifts for the baby. The baby is breech, so a C-section is scheduled for July 3rd. OP offered to pick them up after the procedure.
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OP offered to drive son and daughter-in-law to the hospital for the baby’s C-section. Daughter-in-law insisted on privacy after the surgery, allowing only her sister as a visitor.
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OP couldn’t visit due to TDAP, even though unnecessary. OP suggested a compromise, but daughter-in-law insisted on privacy. OP felt taken advantage of.
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Kate insisted on privacy, claiming no one could take her newborn. OP feels taken advantage of, having supported them and sees narcissistic tendencies in daughter-in-law. WWIII with son caught in the middle.
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Here are some edits from OP.
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It’s their special moment, not yours. Respect their wishes for privacy and bonding. Your expectations as a grandparent need to align with their choices.
Boundaries are crucial. Trying to dictate their birthing experience and pushing for your involvement may strain your relationship further. Respect their decisions.
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