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In this scenario, a couple, Ben and his bride, faced a significant challenge during their wedding due to a clash of cultural and family traditions. The couple had agreed upon certain compromises and boundaries to ensure their wedding day would reflect their shared vision. However, Ben’s close-knit family held strong and inflexible traditions that conflicted with these compromises.
The conflict here is the balance between individual desires and family traditions. While the couple had the right to establish boundaries for their wedding, they faced resistance from Ben’s family members who prioritized their long-standing traditions. The decision to ask some family members to leave the wedding and subsequently cancel the post-wedding celebration intensified the tension and led to a rift within the family.
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1. OP and her husband just got married this January but according to her it was an absolute mess
2. OP told us that even though she cannot attend most events with his family she still has a decent relationship with them
3. The wedding day was planned for New Year’s Day since it was the day they met
4. OP said that Ben’s family traditions are odd but she still embraced them
5. OP wanted her wedding day to be a good day for both of them, she made the compromise of the homemade sheet cake but she wanted some of the things according to her and both families agreed.
6. But on the wedding day OP was shocked to see that even after discussing that there would be no children and anyone could wear whatever they wanted things were opposite
7. Due to this OP and Ben were embarrassed so they decided to kick them out and allowed 3 people to stay who followed the rules
8. Now OP wants to know if she’s an A-hole for not allowing them to practice their traditions
9. OP provided some background information
10. This user says OP is not an A-hole and she wouldn’t have expected much from the family as they have not been respecting OP
11. This user shared her feelings about the husband’s family
12. This user says OP is not an A-hole and he even suggested that don’t ever let your in-laws babysit
13. Almost everyone said OP isn’t the A-hole
14. While some of the users thought that this family was basically a cult
15. NTA
16. This family has made a lot of people uncomfortable
17. This is a fact!
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