Arsalan Sajid
Respect and trust are the most essential elements for a relationship to develop. A couple cannot last long in a relationship if one of them fails to give the other partner these two. While physical attraction initially draws people together, love eventually follows, and their relationship finally blossoms when they value each other’s feelings.
OP and her boyfriend were together for five years. OP’s boyfriend made videos while pranking friends and then uploaded them on social media. OP never allowed him to make her videos, but she sometimes helped him edit and record these videos. The problem appeared when OP went with her boyfriend and his friend to buy something and wore her jeans without her panties in a hurry since she was unable to find it while dressing. When they were walking in the hallway, her boyfriend and his friend grabbed the back pockets of her jeans and ripped her jeans instantly. OP got embarrassed by this humiliation, but her boyfriend started yelling at her instead of protecting her and gave her his sweater to cover her up. OP got so hurt that she broke up with him over his inappropriate behavior and left. Read the entire story to learn about OP’s situation and share your view in the comment section below.
Source: Reddit
1. OP asks if she was wrong for breaking up with her boyfriend because he ripped her jeans in public.
2. OP’s boyfriend made TikTok videos of pranking friends, which OP did not want to appear in, but she helped him sometimes with recording or editing.
3. OP went to buy something with his boyfriend and his friends at night. She wore her jeans without her panties since she could not find at that moment.
4. When they reached the hallway, OP’s boyfriend and his friend pulled her jeans’ back pockets and tore them completely.
5. Realizing her nakedness, OP’s boyfriend started yelling at her, then gave her his sweater to cover up.
6. OP left after breaking up with him. He got annoyed at OP for exaggerating when it was her fault for not wearing panties.
7. OP has given us an update on what happened next.
8. OP had to listen to his explanation unwillingly, when he came to meet her after work.
9. OP ‘s boyfriend said sorry to her and regretted his behavior.
10. He told her that he wanted to marry her and had already bought a ring for her since December.
11. OP’s boyfriend told her that he hid her panties to tease her later.
12. The prank was spontaneously decided upon five minutes prior to its execution. He acted there out of embarrassment as he had forgotten about her hidden panties.
13. OP’s boyfriend asked her for another chance and promised that he would leave his friends.
14. OP loved him but could not forgive him for allowing his friend to do such a prank on her.
Now that you’ve heard the story, let’s dive into what Redditors had to say. Keep reading to discover other people’s perspectives on the matter.
15. Indeed! OP deserves a man who respect her.
16. According to Redditor, a decent guy would protect OP and fight with his friends for humiliating his girlfriend.
17. Redditor thinks that OP should find a better guy who respect her.
18. Yes, most men won’t humiliate in public.
19. Redditor supports OP for leaving him.
20. Redditor think that her ex-boyfriend should at least pay for the destroyed clothes.
A true man always protects his partner and never does anything that is disrespectful to her. OP’s boyfriend played pranks on friends and filmed videos to get money, but that doesn’t mean he’ll let his friend rip off his girlfriend’s jeans in public without her permission. OP should end their relationship with him because of what he done after the incident. He yelled at OP for not wearing pants under jeans while he hid them himself to tease her and then forgot while heading outdoors. It was entirely his fault, not OP’s, yet he acted inappropriately, something OP would never forget in her life. What are your thoughts on OP’s decision to leave her boyfriend? Share your opinions with Defused, and stay tuned.
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