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Mom Is Mad Because Her Daughter Is The Only One Not Invited From Her Whole Class To A Birthday Party

Bullying is not okay no matter who you are.

Bullying is a terrible and extremely negative behavior we often see exhibited by teenagers and adults but in recent times, thanks to the unfortunate spillover effect, this bad behavior has been observed exhibited in all sorts of age groups. In adults, bullying can be very dangerous and violent when compared to bullying in children. Children take support of hurtful words that can do bad damage but when adults relate it to their level of bullying, which involves literally beating the other person, they don’t consider it as terrible and often ignore it. That’s one of the main reasons why bullying in children has increased so much and parents don’t realize how bad the impact is.

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The scary thing about parents not realizing the use of hurtful behavior by children as bullying can have serious consequences. By not stopping them in their tracks, these children will swiftly transition into adult bullying and then it will be too late to fix the matter.

One mother is doing exactly that by ignoring her younger one’s bad behavior. One of her daughter’s classmates has her birthday coming up and this mother’s daughter is the only one out of the whole class who doesn’t get invited to the party. The mom, livid, makes contact with the birthday girl’s mother and asks why isn’t her daughter allowed to come. The response? Because she bullies the birthday girl. But according to this mom, that’s not bullying as bullying for adults is far more brutal. Who’s going to tell her, not being nice to another person and making them feel demotivated is still bullying no matter how you do it?

Scroll down below to read the story to know how the whole conversation went down and did the birthday girl’s mother allow that girl to the party, upon her mother’s insistence, or not.

1. That one child must’ve done something really terrible to be that one child.

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2. Payton has her birthday coming up and everyone from her class was invited except one student.

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3. The reason why that one student wasn’t invited was bullying. 

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4. The matter became a buzz all around and the bully daughter’s mother decided to contact the birthday girl’s mother.

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5. Birthday girl’s mother got targeted for teaching her daughter to be a bully and for using her money to make her daughter new friends.

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6. A couple of offers were made to make the family reconsider but nothing worked. The family did not want anyone near their daughter who she didn’t like.

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7. The matter was taken by the birthday girl’s mother to the community members of AITA.

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8. The invitations were sent directly to the parents.

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9. I too was curious to know what kind of bullying the birthday girl faced.

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10. Payton used to get bullied about her appearance.

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11. And it has happened on multiple occasions.

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12. She also wouldn’t allow Payton to play with the other girls during recess.

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13. And she would refer to her as a crybaby. I think this is enough reason to not invite such a bad bully.

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No, Maam. You are NTA for that girl. In fact, no one would ever be an AH for inviting a bully to a nice event. The parents would’ve fully been the AH had they invited the very person to the birthday party of their daughter who makes life hell for her at school. No one is born a bully so I am going to blame that bully girl’s parents for this.

Here are some of the comments on the story:

14. Inviting her would’ve ruined the event for Payton.

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15. So bad of that mother to try to show her kid as a victim.

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16. Perfectly said.

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17. Kids don’t magical learn stuff. Her parents are fully responsible for the creation of this bully.

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18. Her mom is only making things worse for her daughter.

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19. Actions have consequences. An extremely important lesson that needs to be taught to that girl before it is too late.

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I really hope you guys enjoyed this one. What do you say? Should the girl have been invited to the birthday party or not? Share your thoughts and votes in the comments section down below.

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