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Woman Wants To Plan Her Own Funeral Instead Of Her Religious Parents Doing It

my own funeral

Imagine one day you are finalizing your plane tickets to Maldives, a vacation you had been planning for years and the time had finally come, imagine you just received your Ph.D. degree, something you had always aspired to achieve, imagine you had just selected in your national football team for the upcoming Fifa Worldcup. You would feel on top of the world, right? What if the very next day after securing this achievement you get your test results back for a disease you gave samples for it and it, unfortunately, said that you don’t have many days to live? That would certainly change the whole dynamic. The achievements would suddenly lose all their worth in your life because now the circle of life is about to end.

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For this one woman in today’s story. That is what happened. However, she was not in the mood to spend her last days worrying about death, or going through all the depression and negativity. She wanted something but peace and excitement around her. And the fact that her death was now a certainty, she also wanted to plan her own funeral instead of having her religious parents control it.

All of this and more was discussed by her through a letter her husband shared on Reddit after she passed away. So she was basically communicating with everyone from the heavens. It really is a sweet note.

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1. It does take nerve if you ask me. Let’s see how this one went.

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2. Husband took it to Reddit to thank everyone who sent well wishes to his wife to recover from the medical condition that she had…and to break it to everyone that his wife, after a strong fight, had finally passed away.

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3. She decided to leave a note to the Reddit community and her husband delivered what she had to say, word for word.

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Here’s the letter:

4. She starts off with some light comedy just so the whole death situation doesn’t sadden the whole mood.

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5. Our last words should be ours. Agreed.

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6. People wanted to know why were her parents planning her funeral and not her husband doing it.

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Have you ever heard of any parents being able to easily absorb the news of their child dying? No parent can do it, It is extremely difficult. Natural deaths are something else, you do not expect them but being told that your son/daughter is going to die in about this many days, is something really difficult to handle. And I personally think that is why the parents just couldn’t register the news of their daughter dying and wanted to take control of everything they possibly could to provide her with good final days and a good funeral, according to them.

7. And she did kind of understand why did they want to do it.

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8. Aww, it is cute that they reached a compromise…they were always supposed to.

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9. The parents just couldn’t register what had hit them.

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10. OP just wanted to live her last days in peace.

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Wow, her concept of a funeral really is very solid.

11. I really wonder how that would’ve gone; the party.

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12. She was just happy to plan her own funeral and kept thanking everyone for the good wishes.

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13. Rest well, you deserve it.

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I really hope you guys enjoyed this one. Don’t forget to share your thoughts in the comments section below.

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