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As parents cradle their newborn bundle of joy, they ponder the ideal name, a decision fraught with excitement and perhaps a hint of concern. Family histories and genealogical registers often serve as sources of inspiration for baby names, adding an extra layer of significance to the choice. Selecting a name for another human being carries a weighty responsibility, yet it can also be a joyful endeavour, considering that the child will be known by that name for a lifetime. However, navigating differing opinions from spouses, family members, and friends can complicate the decision-making process.
In a recent post, u/Chuckles_Hadster shared a story detailing their experience with naming their long-awaited child. Despite settling on a name for both parents to be liked and informing their families of their decision, the OP’s mother expressed dissatisfaction, insisting that at least one person in each generation should bear a family name.
The OP, however, admitted to never liking the proposed family name and remained steadfast in their decision. This disagreement continued as the OP stood firm, unwilling to compromise on their choice.
Please scroll down to read his complete story!
Source: Reddit
1. OP’s mother was furious with him for not giving his child the so-called family name.
2. OP and her wife, always wanted a child but due to some gynaecological problems, it was difficult for his wife to conceive. But it was difficult and not impossible, thus one fine day OP and his wife were delighted to announce to were expecting their first child.
3. Due to continuous failure, they had almost lost hope, but when they got the news they were expecting their first child…the entire world felt merrier. The entire family was overjoyed.
4. And then eventually came the name-hunting task. To find the perfect name for their long-awaited child OP believed that one’s name is its first impression.
5. After meticulous calculations and discussion, OP and his wife decided on a name that they thought would be perfect for their child. However, they faced criticism from OP’s mother when they disclosed the chosen name to their family.
6. OP doesn’t like the family name his mother wanted his child to have so he was adamant that his child was not going to be named that.
7. The situation intensified as neither OP nor his mother was budging from their point of view. OP’s mother even blamed his wife for brainwashing him regarding the name.
8. OP talked with his grandma regarding the whole family name tradition and found it was not much of a tradition. But this situation escalated rapidly and there was no contact between OP and his mother for several months after that.
Now that you have read the story, it’s time for you to see what Redditors had to say about this. Read till the end to see what are other people’s opinions on this. Don’t forget to share your own opinion at the end of this article, too.
9. It can get very confusing for oneself and others if a common family name is used for every single person in the family.
10. Some people think they are the last of their kind and a name can die with them.
11. Sometimes traditions are meant to be broken.
12. Nowadays, people think that using the word legacy can glorify any insignificant thing.
13. Break or keep the tradition…it is up to the family or the person to decide that.
14. Family names can be good, as they can provide a sense of connection with the other family members but it all depends on how you feel about it.
15. People latch onto things they have done multiple times and call them traditions.
16. Some names are timeless, you can always find people with them around.
17. Family gatherings are no less than a commotion when everyone has the same name.
18. Family names that are not pretty usually become the middle name just for not breaking the tradition.
19. While some people can’t fathom that it can be so difficult to name a child.
20. Standing up for things that are dearest to you and mean no harm to others is important.
As a parent, you’re faced with numerous decisions, one of which is what to name your child. You might encounter a family member whose name holds special significance and resonates with you deeply. Some individuals may opt to consult with elderly relatives to uncover meaningful and cherished names. While some may feel compelled to uphold longstanding family traditions, it’s important to remember that ultimately, you have the freedom to make choices that best reflect your preferences and values because after all it is your child and the final decision will always be the parents. Share your thoughts in the comments section below.
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