Danish
Discovering that your partner has been unfaithful can be devastating, but learning they worked as a hired escort adds another layer of hurt and betrayal. While suspicions may arise, confirming the truth can be challenging. Despite the stigma surrounding s*x work, it continues to be a reality for many individuals.
For Reddit user u/throwRA_29481, who has been in a relationship for two years and engaged for eight months, the revelation that his fiancée was once an escort came as a shock. Though initially skeptical, his fiancée confirmed the truth when confronted. OP grappled with mixed emotions; while he believed his fiancée shouldn’t be judged for her past, he also felt a sense of betrayal for not being informed earlier.
Now faced with uncertainty about their impending wedding, he found himself at a crossroads, unsure of what steps to take next. Scroll down below to read the story!
Source: u/throwRA_29481
1. If this news came as a shocking revelation so close the wedding, then OP has a point.
2. OP, engaged for 8 months to his fiancée, is soon going to marry her. He absolutely loves her and considers her a great addition to his life.
3. It is like OP and Diana were always meant to be together.
Sounds like a made-for-each-other couple we only see in romantic movies.
4. The earthquake on their perfect road was a message OP once received from an anonymous number containing pictures of Diana, from her past, working as an escort.
5. Although s*x working is legal in OP’s state, he was still devastated because Diana mentioned nothing about this. Upon confrontation, she confirmed the rumor to be true.
6. Diana explained everything to OP she worked as an escort for two years before quitting because she developed a hate for the job.
7. The shock of getting to know his soon-to-be wife used to sleep with two to three men week in and week out confused OP regarding his entire relationship.
8. OP stated clearly he would have never pursued a relationship with Diana had he known about her past.
9. They waited to secure their relationship until the two were serious about having s*x. Turns out it was a daily thing for Diana.
10. He had to know about this way earlier to create the ground before all the society members who knew him very well due to business relationships.
11. OP is planning to break their engagement and call off the wedding, but doesn’t know how to tell this to Diana.
I am somewhere in the middle on this one. OP has all the right to break the engagement here. Diana hid a major portion of her past that he, for sure, should have known about. As OP said, he had no plans to pursue a relationship he knew slept with multiple men every week. This relationship would’ve never been a thing had OP known Diana was once an escort. So, if he calls off the wedding, he has a solid reason to back that decision.
However, there is a part of me that thinks this was an overreaction. For a person you love so dearly, I think you can let it slide. Again, I am not in the situation so I can’t really tell how OP felt exactly, but the way he talked about her in the beginning as if she is his perfect match, I think by talking and running this through by a long, detailed conversation, maybe the decision can change. Besides, she isn’t an escort now, she is done with that chapter.
The ultimate decision is for OP to make, we can only suggest.
Source: u/throwRA_29481
Here’s what the internet had to say on this:
12. See, there is a divide between the thoughts. While you think it is okay, you also think it is not.
Via AylaCars
13. He can either accept Diana’s past and the two can continue or he can reject it and the two part ways.
Via philip2110
14. OP has every right to call off the wedding but that will not change anything. Her past as an escort can never be removed. He should think about this.
Via Reddit
15. While it did sound like an intense relationship drama with guilt written all over it, this person thinks this is a made-up story for attention and likes.
Via ThrowRA1234568
16. This is a breach of OP’s trust.
17. This person won’t date someone like Diana.
18. If OP has decided to leave her, every minute spent waiting will only make matters worse for him.
Via Reddit
19. Break the engagement, it is better for your mental health.
Via Fun_Tax2283
20. Leaving it on a cliffhanger, who was that person who sent OP those pictures?
OP’s relationship with Diana was like a perfect movie scene from a romantic movie. And then this happened, making things turn upside down. It has got to be someone who didn’t want OP and Diana to be together.
Via Rip_Dirtbag
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