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Boss Insists Breast Pumping Mom Turn Camera On For Work Meeting, She Does

Anyone who has had to participate in a video conference call has likely faced the question of whether or not to turn on their camera. Usually, it’s just a case of not wanting the CEO to see you in your stained shirt, but there are occasions when there’s a real reason you’re not quite ready for public display. This employee informed her boss that she might not be suitable for camera work and provided a plausible justification. They didn’t want to hear it, of course. As a result, the entire staff got a glimpse into her personal life. Surprisingly, the experience resulted in an entirely new work policy. So, hey, workplace culture isn’t as opaque as it appears.

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In the following story, an employee is asked to turn the camera on no matter what, as she had returned from maternity leave, she had to use a breast pump several times a day. The employee got worried when she was asked to turn the camera on and even communicated it with the manager but he asked her to comply no matter what. She, being savage, did turn on the camera and it made everyone awkward, as it had to. In the later meetings, the boss learned his lesson and announced that everyone who is comfortable turning their camera on will turn their camera on only. OP got succeeded, at last. Let’s hear the story in her own words.

1. The OP is a project manager and you know how project managers have to attend a lot of team meetings to discuss work

Font - Posted by u/HappyGiraffe 21 hours ago O 4 O 2 8 7 3 13 3 2 Cameras have to be on....NO MATTER WHAT! Fine by me, don't mind the pump oc M I am a project manager and data scientist. I manage lots of different public health related projects. There is one project in particular that includes a really demanding team from a federal government department.

2. Being returned back from maternity leave, OP had to use a breast pump several times a day which she would use while working (writing emails and reports).

Font - I recently returned back to work from maternity leave. I work in my office three days a week; on those days, I have to pump breastmilk at regular intervals for my baby. Luckily, I have my own private office and can usually just keep on working (emails, reports, etc) while I pump. I have a hands- free, wearable pump which is convenient..but still definitely obvious if I am wearing it (it pokes out about my shirt and is not exactly silent).
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Font - Recently we have a Zoom call scheduled during one of the times I needed to pump. Instead of missing the meeting, I figured I would just keep my camera off so I could wear my pump and still participate and listen. Heck, I was even IN my office and not working from home; I felt like I was being a pretty committed employee! Meeting starts, a few people have their cameras off. The Lead makes the announcement: "I just want to remind everyone that our expectation is that you will have your came
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4. OP hurriedly sent a private message to her boss and told him the problem of not turning the camera on. did not get any reply and still was asked again to open camera. OP turned the camera on against 20 people and the rest of the meeting continued awkwardly. Many people asked her if she can turn it off as it’s comfortable but it now it was of no use. In the recent meeting, it was announced that anyone who is COMFORTABLE can turn their camera on. Slow claps; he learnt his lesson

Font - I sent a quick private message to explain I was paying attention, but pumping; no response to me, just instead, a, "Again, the expectation is that all cameras will be on." So fine. I turn my camera on for this meeting of about 20 people, The camera isn't aimed at my chest but certainly the top of my pump is CLEARLY visible. I unmuted myself, so you could also clearly HEAR the pump, and just said, "Thank you for your patience, I was adjusting my breast pump." The meeting continued awkwardl
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5. My head hurts trying to figure this out too

Font - Bobrakis · 21 hr. ago this is not a virtual meeting, it is a simulated in person meeting My head hurts trying to figure this out...
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6. This is how the dynamics are in a workplace 

Rectangle - doc_skinner · 20 hr. ago I work at a university and all of the faculty complain that their students don't turn on their cameras, and then we have a departmental meeting and NONE of those f..kers turn their cameras on.
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7. She really did that for everyone; getting a whole new policy initiated, congratulations to her

Plant - newaccount-heyy · 19 hr. ago "Please turn on your cameras if you are comfortable doing so." Congrats OP, you did that for everyone.
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Well, what do you think of this story? I think a little space must be given to everyone considering their situation. This rude boss should not have been so rigid at first which might not have had him end up changing his own instruction. Well, it was good for everyone. Stay tuned for more fun articles.
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