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In this story, a couple with a four-year-old daughter decided to try for another baby in January 2022. They initially faced difficulties in conceiving but planned to continue trying. However, in April, OP’s sister got engaged and booked a wedding venue for May 2023. To avoid having a newborn close to the wedding date, the couple decided to temporarily halt their efforts until they knew the wedding date. They resumed trying in June 2023, expecting it would take a while to conceive.
Contrary to their expectations, they became pregnant after only one attempt. The protagonist informed her sister and her fiancé about her pregnancy, stating that she would be 30 weeks pregnant during the wedding. She offered to step aside from her role in the wedding if it would make her sister more comfortable.
In response, the sister became angry and believed the pregnancy would overshadow her wedding day. OP’s mother and another sister also expressed disapproval and suggested different ways the situation could have been handled. OP is left feeling uncertain about whether her actions were inconsiderate and whether she should be the one to make amends.
So keep on scrolling down below to read the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end otherwise, you won’t be able to know who’s the A-hole here.
1. OP and her husband have a four-year-old daughter and they decided to try another baby they had no positive tests and they knew it was going to be more challenging
2. OP and her husband decided they would stop trying to make another baby until they knew the wedding date
3. They thought they would have to try multiple times to have a baby but fate had another plan OP conceived a baby with only one try and now she’s expecting and would be 30 weeks pregnant at her sister’s wedding
4. OP told her family that they are expecting a baby moreover, she told them that they would be there as long as she is not on bed rest or anything.
5. OP expected her sister to be happy for her but it turns out that she’s incredibly angry at OP and she thinks that the baby will take away from her wedding day
6. Now OP wants to know whether she’s an A-hole for being pregnant at her sister’s wedding or not
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7. One does not have to plan their family according to a wedding
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8. This user thinks that OP’s sister has gone full bridezilla and her mother should be ashamed for siding with her
9. She’s being absolutely selfish and entitled
10. Users are accusing OP’s family of being weird and whatnot and I guess they are right!
11. OP is definitely NTA
12. Exactly, being 30 weeks pregnant won’t take her wedding away.
13. What do you think about this?
14. Whatever OP is gonna do we also think that they are going to complain, so OP should seek whatever is comfortable for her.
15. Almost everyone said OP is NTA and they are correct
16. OP’s sister is being totally unreasonable for demanding such conditions for her wedding
17. This user thinks all of OP’s family love her sister more than OP
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