Woman Glows-Up After She Breaks Up With Her Unsupportive Husband, Husband Gets Upset

Both men and women share equal responsibility for managing their homes, supporting one another in all tasks, and raising their children. Some conceited men have the impression that women are in charge of the home and the children and that men’s only job is to sit around and place orders after work. Why don’t men work to assist in the home when women are working outside as well?

OP’s husband was an egoistic person who never helped her wife with housework or taking care of the kids, as he thought that these were all only women’s jobs. He also degraded her all the time about her fat body after giving birth and her unwanted personality without any proper job. Although OP was a working doctor who would be a specialist soon and paid 40% of their total expenses, he never appreciated her contribution. OP had bore enough of this mistreatment and filed the lawsuit in court since he refused to give her a share of the house or the child support fund after their divorce. Read the full story to learn about OP’s growth after getting out of a toxic relationship, and share your thoughts about it in the comment section below.

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1. OP was degraded by her husband, but she proved him wrong after getting a divorce from him.

2. After having kids, OP was forced to do all house chores and take care of the kids alone as her husband declared them as a woman’s responsibility.

3. OP’s spouse did not view her as a working woman even though she was a doctor who was becoming a specialist and paid 40% of their total expenses.

4. OP’s husband taunted her about becoming fat after kids, although he never maintained himself or helped her to take some time out for exercise.

5. OP’s husband always tried to degrade her by calling her an unwanted and unmanageable person who got lucky to have him.

6. OP had to file a lawsuit to obtain her share of the house and the child support fund, which he refused to give her.

7. OP experienced financial hardship during her legal battle. She slimmed down by using her cargo bike to get any place with her children, and numerous guys asked her out on dates.

8. OP’s friend made her Tinder profile and forced her to go out on a date with a man younger than her.

9. OP had been dating him for two years; he was a charming, kind man who worked in the same field as her ex-husband.

10. OP bought a flat and a car after she received half of all they had shared through a court-ordered divorce. The law required OP’s husband to pay the standard sum of child support.

11. After the divorce, OP lost weight and looked younger, but her ex-husband appeared 20 years older due to significant weight gain.

12. OP’s ex-husband started dating another woman whom OP and her kids liked very much, but her ex-husband treated her even worse than OP.

Now that you’ve heard the story, let’s dive into what Redditors had to say. Keep reading to discover other people’s perspectives on the matter.

13. Redditor appreciates OP losing her baby weight and standing against her husband’s egomaniac behavior. 

14. Yes, there are many men like him in the society.

15. All is well if it ends well!

16. Redditor is pleased to see OP’s kids by her side and to be witnesses to their father’s mistreatment.

17. Redditor appreciates OP’s attitude towards her husband’s new partner.

18. OP hoped that her ex-husband’s girlfriend would stick with him till her children got a little older since she was happy with the way she treated her kids.

19. Redditor expresses the desire that OP and his new girlfriend will become best friends and that OP’s hubby should be left alone.

20. Mocking a future specialist is not making sense.

OP is fortunate enough to have left the toxic relationship, which was negatively impacting not just her mental health but also the personalities of her children. Her children would never understand their father’s behavior because they were the ones who saw him degrading her all the time. Eventually, as they grew up and settled into their practical lives, they would leave him. After the divorce, OP’s health improved, and she entered a new relationship with a better person who respected and cared for her. OP’s husband had also found a new girlfriend, but he might lose her too because he hadn’t yet learned his lesson. How do you feel about OP’s circumstances? Share your views in the comment section, and check out Defused for more stories.