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In this story, a young person’s mother returns from the grocery store with vegan products, despite the young person repeatedly expressing their preference against processed foods and their disinterest in the items. The young person feels conflicted because while they appreciate their mother’s gesture, they also feel unheard and frustrated that their preferences were disregarded. This leads to tension between them, causing the mother to become upset and refuse to speak to the young person.
So keep on scrolling down below to read the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end otherwise, you won’t be able to let us know whether OP is an A-hole or not.
1. OP’s mom came back from a grocery store with a bag of stuff she bought moreover, OP is a vegan and she bought vegan stuff but the thing is OP doesn’t like processed food and he has asked her mom multiple times that he doesn’t want anything. She got angry and said to OP he can throw it away if he doesn’t want it
2. Now OP is feeling bad because he realized that she just wanted to do something nice for him and he was being ungrateful, OP wants to know whether he’s an A-hole or not. Let’s find out!
3. Here’s an update OP provided us with in which he said the mother understands it and OP is thanking everyone for giving him opinions and response
4. Exactly, if OP would have brought it up at the right time it may have resulted differently. Well, we are happy that everything is fine now as OP told us!
5. This user made an awesome comment and which according to me is a rightful fact!
6. Oh well OP told the users that he’s the one who cooks her mom doesn’t because he doesn’t want her to waste money, that’s good of OP though.
7. This user wanted to know whether it was the first time that she did this so OP replied it was not the first time it happened more than once
8. Age doesn’t matter, what do you think?
9. NTA
10. This user wanted to know what’s her gesture to show love
11. Well, OP didn’t say something bad and he was polite!
12. This could be but he just wanted her to not bring things he doesn’t want
13. Grandmas are always the sweetest, right?
14. Exactly, it was a communication problem more than anything and it could be fixed with a little hardship not so much
15. Do you think this user is right?
16. There are a lot of people who could relate to the issue here
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