Wife Blew Up Finding Out Her Babysitter Took A Shower While Her Husband Was Home

OP hired a babysitter for their 5 and 3-year-old kids. Yesterday, the babysitter took a quick shower at OP’s home after a milk spill. OP, upset and confused, found out her husband was home during his shift. OP confronted the babysitter about the shower without permission. A disagreement ensued, involving OP and her husband. OP, who pays the babysitter, considered cutting her salary, while the husband downplayed the situation. OP feels the shower was inappropriate and the babysitter should have checked with her. AITA for my reaction? OP emphasizes she didn’t know her husband was home, values communication, and clarifies her husband’s shift swap due to feeling sick. The 24-year-old babysitter defends her actions, claiming necessity and brings essentials like clothes and wet wipes. Communication breakdowns persist, needing resolution for a comfortable work relationship.

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Hired a babysitter, no issues until yesterday. Found babysitter showered at my home due to spilled milk. Confusion ensued.

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OP upset, husband home during shift, babysitter showered. OP finds it inappropriate, argument ensues, husband downplays, communication breakdown.

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Husband downplays, OP upset, babysitter dismissive. Argument continues, babysitter defends, OP considers salary cut. Ongoing disagreement.

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Husband downplays, OP upset. Feels babysitter’s actions inappropriate, values communication. Asks if overreacting. OP pays, emphasizes communication.

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OP unaware husband home. Argued before knowing, uncertain about milk stain. Husband swapped shift due to feeling sick. Communication issues persist.

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Babysitter, 24, experienced, brings clothes, wet wipes. OP emphasizes preparedness but seeks resolution for communication breakdown.

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The story shows that OP hired a babysitter but got upset when the babysitter took a shower without asking. OP didn’t know her husband was home, and they argued about it. OP felt it was inappropriate. The husband and babysitter didn’t see it as a big problem. The story teaches that it’s important for everyone to communicate and understand each other. OP wants the babysitter to check before doing things. It’s about different opinions and feelings. They need to talk more to avoid misunderstandings and make sure everyone is comfortable with what happens at home. Communication helps everyone be on the same page.

Now that you have read the story, it’s time for you to see what Redditors had to say about this. Read till the end to see what are other people’s opinions on this. Don’t forget to share your own opinion at the end of this article.

Your husband supported the babysitter, and she had a valid reason to shower. Don’t punish her for a minor incident.

The babysitter dealt with a spill, and your husband was there. Cutting her pay seems harsh for a small issue.

Cutting her salary for a quick shower? Seems highly unreasonable.

YTA, the babysitter acted responsibly, and your husband supported her. Cutting pay seems unfair for a simple shower incident.

Overreacting to a babysitter handling a spill? Your husband was there, and cutting pay is excessive for a minor issue.

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