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This story is about OP, who got married without understanding what marriage means. OP grew up in a family where rules weren’t a big deal, and personal freedom was valued. He thought marriage meant being happy with someone but still being free to do whatever you want. After two years of feeling weird about the marriage, OP had issues with her wife about spending time with friends and hobbies. He also had problems with his mom, and when he read online about dealing with a difficult mother-in-law, it changed how they saw things. He realized they didn’t like the idea of putting wife above everyone else, which disgusted them with the idea of marriage.
Feeling like he made a big mistake, OP told his wife he wanted a divorce because he couldn’t be the partner she needed. Her wife blamed his mom, but it wasn’t about that. Despite his love for his wife, OP filed for divorce, left the house, and went to stay with his mom. However, the wife didn’t accept it and tried to stop the divorce by leaving emotional voicemails, showing up at work, and banging on the door. OP’s mom got involved, calling the wife controlling. OP is struggling to make his wife understand that he can’t be stopped and that his decision is about personal beliefs, not her mom’s.
So keep on scrolling down below to read the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end.
1. OP says he feels like an idiot and he should never have gotten married, let’s find out what happened.
2. OP accidentally found out that her mom and stepdad have an open relationship moreover, OP said he loves her wife so he figured out that he should marry her.
3. OP has been married for two years but he felt something was off about the marriage, OP’s wife wanted him to spend less time with friends and hobbies but they compromised somehow.
4. OP says he hates the idea that his number one priority should be his wife above the woman who raised him moreover, he says he loves her wife but he hates the idea of the institution of marriage.
5. OP one day realized that he made a big mistake so he told her wife that he wanted a divorce and she deserved better, OP’s wife blamed it on OP’s mother but he explained to her that it had nothing to do with his mom.
6. OP’s wife said he can’t divorce her because his reasons weren’t good enough, but OP had made up his mind he leave the house and stay with her mom. But the wife didn’t take it good she left him emotional voicemails crying and even showed up at his workplace.
7. When OP’s mom called her wife controlling it pissed him off, OP says he doesn’t know how to get her to understand that she can’t control him now and he just doesn’t like the idea of marriage.
8. Too long didn’t read, it says that OP wants a divorce because he didn’t realize he doesn’t believe in marriages.
9. Viewers said that OP should go to therapy ASAP
10. People also thought that OP is not mature at all
11. At first I think he should have known what a marriage is, and then he should have committed to her.
12. She deserves better period!
13. People said OP is the absolute worst and he should remain with his mother
14. A lot of users had to say OP is immature and I think they are right!
15. Dude needs to understand what marriage is first then maybe it could have worked but his concepts of marriage were wrong too
16. I agree with this user!
17. I think it’s more than a lack of communication, what do you think?
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