in , ,

Wife Won’t Let Husband’s Father Hold Their Baby After He Is Born

Holding Baby

Having a child is bliss, especially when it is your first one. The excitement levels in the family are off the charts and everyone is just extremely anxious to hold the baby for the first time when it finally arrives in the world. All these are symbols of love and affection and should be seen promoted everywhere around the world.

Advertisement

Unfortunately, though, this bliss was not promoted in this family which is the center of focus of the story we have got for you guys today. Reddit user Confident-Addition76 is a soon-to-be father whose wife has decided to create a list of people who will not be allowed to hold their baby when it gets born. The list also contains the names of OP’s father and sister. He feels this is unfair and they deserve to hold the baby. However, the wife says because her FIL used to ab*se her husband when he was a child, she won’t allow him to hold her baby. She won’t even allow the grandfather to see ultrasound pictures of his grandson. When OP tried to take pictures and send them to his father, he got threatened by his wife and her side of the family with divorce.

Scroll down below to read the events of probably the weirdest story you will ever come across.

1. What has the grandfather done to deserve this? Let’s find out.

Via u/Confident-Addition76

2. OP’s father and sister have been added to the list of people who will not be allowed to hold the baby when it is born and the husband doesn’t like it.

Advertisement

Via u/Confident-Addition76

3. She better have a really solid decision to not allow her father-in-law to hold her baby or else this sounds really psychotic.

Advertisement

Via u/Confident-Addition76

4. The health reasons part I can understand. But “dirty”? I am sure the grandfather will wash his hands before holding the baby. What is this?

Advertisement

Via u/Confident-Addition76

5. Everyone has mutually agreed on this decision except for OP, he still feels this is wrong because his in-laws will be holding the baby when it gets born so why not her in-laws?

Advertisement

Via u/Confident-Addition76

6. They have come down to threatening OP with divorce and not telling him when the baby will be born. Crazy!

Advertisement

Via u/Confident-Addition76

7. OP got called immature and rude for wanting his own father to hold his first baby? Farewell, logic.

Advertisement

Via u/Confident-Addition76

8. OP feels he and his father are being disrespected by his wife and her family with this decision.

Advertisement

Via u/Confident-Addition76

9. The wife refused to have the father see the baby through the ultrasound pictures either.

Advertisement

Via u/Confident-Addition76

An update came in 2 days later:

10. OP allowed his dad to see the picture. The wife did not like her husband going against her created laws.

Advertisement

Via u/Confident-Addition76

11. The wife resorted to physical ab*se to stop her husband from sending ultrasound pictures to his father.

Via u/Confident-Addition76

Brother? Is this woman crazy? What is this woman on? Seriously, what does she think will happen if the grandfather sees the picture of his yet-to-be-born grandson? It is not like he will be physically touching the baby by looking at a picture of it. Her decision was that OP’s father will not be allowed to hold the baby. Sure, but not allowing him to even look at his pictures is rude, outrageous, and criminal. And then this woman goes on to punch her husband as he tries to send the pictures to his father. She needs to be reported for physical ab*se. Imagine when her son grows up and he goes against one of her decisions or laws, will she start punching her baby as well? Absurd!

Let’s read what happened next. Scroll down below to continue.

12. Turns out the reason why the wife doesn’t want her FIL to hold her baby is that he used to ab*se her husband when he was a child.

Advertisement

And what you just did to your husband? Was that not ab*se? You punched that guy and manhandled him. You are no different. That means the wife shouldn’t be allowed to hold her own baby either…if that is the criteria she is setting.

Via u/Confident-Addition76

13. OP told the MIL to stay out of it…rightfully.

Via u/Confident-Addition76

14. Well try conceiving without the sperm. I would like to see that happen.

Advertisement

Via u/Confident-Addition76

15. OP had to finally give up and he rushed out of the room.

Via u/Confident-Addition76

16. OP returns to the room after cooling himself down and now the wife wants a divorce. For heaven’s sake, what is wrong with this wife? And her side of the family is supporting this decision of hers too.

Advertisement

Via u/Confident-Addition76

17. It is hard to get out of it after being mentally ab*sed that horribly…by your own wife.

Via u/Confident-Addition76

18. OP’s father had some issues with anger management which made it not easy for him to see his wife and son.

Advertisement

Via u/Confident-Addition76

19. But OP’s father is a changed man now. OP believes a grandfather-grandson bond is absolutely necessary for any child.

Via u/Confident-Addition76

20. Well then I would officially like to declare OP’s wife mentally disabled. She shouldn’t be allowed to take decisions concerning her child at all.

Advertisement

Via u/Confident-Addition76

Here are some of the comments shared on the story:

21. Poor boy is going to get hit with a lot of sad and unfortunate realities right from the beginning.

Via diplovingbitch

22. She ab*sed him to tell him his father is ab*sive and that is why she will not let him hold the baby.

Advertisement
Advertisement

Via maid_assassin

23. Someone award this wife with a Ph.D. degree.

Via James-K-Polka

24. End of story.

Via chriswillar

25. And the child is going to suffer the consequences of their immature actions.

Via MrD3a7h

I really hope you guys enjoyed this one. Don’t forget to share your thoughts in the comments section below.

Stay tuned for more stories!

Via u/LadyCasualGamer

Cat tax.

“If you think adopting a formerly feral kitten from the shelter means they will not be affectionate, I’m here to tell you that you are mistaken.”

Advertisement

What do you think?

Leave a Reply

GIPHY App Key not set. Please check settings