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Relationships are sensitive to everything.
You can refer to it as an entity with a life that depends on the lives of those parts of that relationship. Its heartbeat can go up and down 20 times in a day, that’s how emotionally active relationships are. You have to be very careful as this adventurous bond loves to reside on an extremely thin thread that could break if someone blew too hard near it. The only way to keep the relationship running and that foundation strong is to your trust and confidence in your other half extremely high. And of course, you have to make a lot of compromises in order for a relationship to be successful in the long term.
Let’s talk about an ideal relationship and then discuss it a bit more through a Reddit story that we have got for you guys too. Ideally, when you form a bond of love with your partner, it is said to be inseparable. That means the loyalty levels in that bond are extremely high and are sure your partner will never be disloyal to you no matter how delicious a situation might be to cheat or to lie. Well, that’s ideal. In reality, people slip. And my question is, given that nobody is perfect, is it okay to have such slips…or allow such slips to happen from the get-go?
In today’s story shared by Reddit, user u/Dancingelves shares their concerns with the community of AITA about their conflict with their wife. The husband has a husband and wife conflict over an alleged homewrecker. Not knowing if he did the right thing or not, and you will know what he did once you read the story, the husband left his fate at the hands of the AITA community members and the 4.4 million judges were quick to form a mutual opinion on the couple’s disagreement.
Scroll down below to read the story!
1. OP’s wife has a colleague from work who runs a fitness business at his home.
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2. One night, the wife discovered another colleague of hers had slept the night with Joe. And she shared that information with OP.
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3. So this is how Joe gets the name “homewrecker”. His involvement with the girl could possibly be why she split up with her husband. And I think we all know where this story is now heading.
Via u/Dancingelves
4. Wife asks OP for permission to attend an evening workout session. OP refuses but she chooses to sign up anyway.
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5. Upon realizing his wife is still attending the workout sessions by the homewrecker, the couple have a fight.
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6. OP had full trust in his wife, he just wasn’t comfortable with her being in the presence of that homewrecker.
Via u/Dancingelves
OP was NTA. He was fully in the clear for telling his wife not to attend those workout sessions anymore. We have no idea how hostile men can be at times and use the worst methods to lure you into their trap. You don’t know how it happens because your internal trust in your bond with the one you love is still extremely strong but it happens. And the husband was just concerned it may not happen with his wife. I mean, come on. His wife just told him he banged a colleague who attended his workout session. If your wife attended the same session and that guy was her colleague as well, wouldn’t you feel concerned?
So yeah, OP wasn’t wrong about telling his wife to stop going. I believe she will find out later someday that this decision was absolutely in her favor.
Here’s what the AITA members had to say and why:
7. They will make a Netflix movie on Joe.
Via Quey84
8. She clearly wouldn’t have liked it if the homewrecker was a woman and OP was attending the workout sessions.
9. If she wouldn’t be okay with it, how does she expect her husband to be okay with it.
10. Red flags galore absolutely!
Via dabbers4123
11. The should respect the fact that her going on a private workout session conducted by a man makes him uncomfortable.
Via NcgreenIantern
I really hope you guys enjoyed this one. Don’t forget to share your thoughts in the comments section down below.
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