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There is no bonding more beautiful, in the world, than the bond that exists between brothers and sisters. We must agree that brothers are the ones with whom we argue, scold, and, in some cases, save them from the most difficult situations (especially from our parents.) But, even so, we can’t fathom our lives without these best pals.
The fact that the brothers want help or plan to move into their sister’s home is totally understandable and acceptable. Until and unless the boys also take care of their sisters and contribute to household tasks, everything is OK. However, if these brothers fail to appreciate and assist their sisters in their daily activities, the game would indeed be ruined. In the event that someone is so generous as to provide you with housing, food, and a calm place to live until you can find another place to move, then it is their great honor. Each person is accountable for being able to stand on their own feet and be financially stable so that no one else is burdened because of them. But, what if someone is continuously providing you with basic necessities, and the other person doesn’t care about it and instead spends days or months sitting idle? This is enough to cause a rift in the relationship that will never be fixed no matter how many times you forgive them or whatever you do to make things right.
When it comes to siblings, it’s a fact that if you can survive growing up with siblings, you can survive anything. It’s hard to believe how many troubles, battles, and even violent acts of revenge we have survived (thanks to our brothers.) Just like this Reddit user, Relative_Potential92, described a terrible experience with her Older Brother (OB), who was kicked out of numerous places because he was inconsistent in his jobs and even forced to live with his sister by his family. This OP (sister) has chosen to let her brother move in with her till he gets another job and a new place to live in the meantime. However, she felt that what her brother did was utterly unjust, and as a result of his idiotic attitude, she requested him to leave her place. (Well, the story does not come to a conclusion here!) A lot of trouble and drama was created by her brother when she asked him to leave the house.
Want to read the complete Reddit AITA post? Then just keep scrolling down to know what happened next!
Here’s the AITA post where the OP gave a little introduction of her Older Brother(OB).
The brother lost many jobs and had no place to live. His family suggested to move to his sister’s house for few months.
The family asked the OP if she could look after her older brother because there was no place in the house for him.
So, the sister felt pity and allowed her older brother to stay with her, but with few conditions.
When the OB was requested to move, he created a drama and called his entire family (including aunts and uncles) to inform them of the situation!
Later, the sister dropped off her OB at her aunt’s house, where the aunt started yelling and demanded that she should take her brother to her house.
The OP answered few of the questions asked by the strangers on the internet!
…continue!
No matter how bad a person’s relationship is with their siblings, it is none of the person’s business to get involved, especially aunts and uncles. But did you note how harsh this aunt became when she scolded the OP for kicking her brother out of the house, and how disrespectful she became when she realized the problem was waiting for her outside? This example is enough to explain the statement: “be the change you want to see in the world.”
Check out what other Reddit users have to say on this post!
How’s your relationship with your siblings? Have you ever had any terrible experience with your brother? If so, then don’t forget to share your story with us in the comments section below!