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Dad Asks If He’s Wrong For Telling His Daughter About Why He’s Divorcing Her Mother

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In this emotional and challenging family situation, a husband is contemplating whether to reveal a long-held secret to his daughter, Callie. He is on the brink of divorcing his wife, whom he discovered intentionally got pregnant to pressure him into marriage when they were both younger. While he deeply loves his daughter and never wants her to bear the burden of knowing her origin was based on manipulation, his wife’s behavior and allegations have strained their relationship with Callie.

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The husband’s dilemma lies in whether to disclose the truth to Callie, as his wife continues to slander him with false accusations of infidelity. He seeks to clarify his reasons for wanting a divorce, wanting to ensure his daughter understands that it’s not about seeking someone younger or new but rather about the unresolved emotional wounds from his past.

So keep on scrolling down below to read the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end. Otherwise, you won’t be able to identify whether OP is a but* face or not.

1. When OP was 20 years old his girlfriend who is now his wife got herself pregnant to make OP marry her

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2. OP said he was never able to forgive her ever since he found out about what she did, and OP wanted to divorce her as soon as his child is grown up and his wife is also aware of this fact.

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3. OP revealed his feelings for her daughter and he says he loves her more than his own life

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4. OP’s daughter doesn’t know what her mother did to get married moreover, OP said he won’t ever tell her in normal circumstances.

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5. OP’s daughter is now 19 years old and she’ll be moving to start university soon, so OP told her wife that he would be wanting a divorce which she didn’t take well. OP’s wife keeps badmouthing him and she even told her daughter that she wants a divorce because OP is involved in infidelity.

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6. Callie OP’s daughter seems to believe her mother for the accusations about OP and she has become cold and angry towards OP

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7. OP considered telling her daughter about the real reason for divorce because he doesn’t want her daughter to think badly of him, and OP warned her wife that if she won’t stop besmirching him he will tell Callie about the real reason for divorce.

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8. OP said that he doesn’t want to destroy her relationship with their daughter but as we speak of the moment she is destroying her relationship with OP, so OP wants to know whether he would be a bu*t face if he tells her the real reason for the divorce.

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9. This user suggested OP tell her daughter because she has already turned her against OP

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10. This user suggested it right, OP needs to tell her daughter about the reason for the divorce but he needs to be careful with the conversation as the entire relationship would turn out to be a lie for her.

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11. OP has every right to be honest with her daughter and tell her everything

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12. And as the wife has turned her daughter towards OP now is the time to reveal the prolonged secret

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13. This user shared her own experience and suggested OP not lie to her for one more second

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14. OP may not have told her about the divorce but the fact that she is badmouthing OP is enough to tell her the truth otherwise, their entire relationship could be destroyed.

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15. Exactly this user is right, OP needs to act before his relationship is completely ruined with her daughter.

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16. Agreed with this user

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17. We all truly hope it goes in the favor of OP

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From the user’s opinions above it is obvious that OP needs to tell her daughter the reason for divorce and telling this reason won’t make OP a but* face. Shed your thoughts about this post in the comment section below and don’t forget to like and share it with your friends and family. Stay tuned with Defused for more content. Thank You!

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