Malaika
Who doesn’t want the perfect family?
I am sure it’s many people’s dream to have a white picket fence around their house, well-behaved children while they live in the suburbia. However, things don’t always turn out the way you suspect they will. And just because you face a few problems along the way doesn’t mean you can just walk away from them rather than face them head-on.
Although if you o walk away be ready to face repercussions. But this father thought he could have his perfect family and not antagonize his daughter as well. That isn’t how life works but he seems to blame his daughter for ruining everything when she was the one in a bad situation.
You can read the whole story for yourself by scrolling below and taking a look.
Source: Reddit
It sounds pretty bad but you will understand the daughter’s side pretty soon.
Just because she couldn’t have more children?
There are a number of ways to have children other than just cheating on your partner.
Did he really expect everything to be perfect when he did that?
He ALREADY HAD a family, that’s the fucked up thing. He just wanted more kids and couldn’t accept it wasn’t happening. So instead of focusing on the kid they had, he found another woman with more kids.
And then instead of focusing on those kids, they decided a piece of DNA from each of them was more important and had another kid to “cement” the marriage. Not to mention he and OP’s mother could have, oh I don’t know, ADOPTED some kids if he wanted more of them so badly. –emeraldpeach
It is her choice and it is perfectly fine that she doesn’t want a family.
How is this any of her fault? She isn’t the one who cheated on someone.
Does he suddenly think it is alright to contact her after all this time?
Honestly, it would be impossible to pretend everything is fine after your biological father cheats on your mother.
NTA. If he was a real family man he wouldn’t have cheated and tried to smash you into a situation like that. He did this to himself. You are not out of line for telling him how you feel. –CCMeGently
Her daughter is moving on…..from him.
He just wants to pretend that what he did wasn’t an a**hole move.
The daughter has, even more, to add about her situation.
At the end of the day, it was just a sh*tty excuse to cheat on his partner.
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