Marriage is a rollercoaster ride.
Most people get married thinking that it would be a smooth sail and that there would be sunshine and rainbows, but that is far from the truth. Yes, marriage is an amazing experience but it isn’t always perfect. For two people to live together forever, it requires a lot of love, respect, and compromise. Everyone has flaws and we shouldn’t expect our partner to be perfect because that is technically impossible. However, we should make sure that no one is taking advantage of our compromises either. There should be an equal effort from both sides. Imbalance can lead to the failure of relationships.
One Redditor shared her story of having a quarrel with her husband for turning the lights on in the middle of the night. He has to wake up around 4 AM for work but he creates a lot of noise and wakes his wife up every time. So, she moved to the guest room and asked if she was wrong for doing so.
Read the whole story down below:
Her husband recently had a change in shifts, so he has to wake up around 4 AM.
He is really loud and inconsiderate when he is getting ready for work.
So she finally snapped and moved to the guest room.
He isn’t even trying to be quiet at this point.
So after a quarrel, her husband promised her it won’t happen again.
But sadly, he did it all over again. So she shifted to the guest room again.
For anyone making assumptions about her financial situation, she gave some information.
This is what other Redditors had to say about the incident.
Some offered a compromise.
The husband does sound a little narcissistic.
Therapy would work best for this couple.
There is nothing wrong with sleeping separately.
No one is blaming the wife.
This isn’t that big of an issue if the husband just put his ego aside.
But this guy summed it all up.
What is your opinion on this? Do you think the wife is in the right? Or should she compromise with her husband? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below!