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Amidst a windfall of inheritance, OP’s parents purchased an ice cream shop, intending to revive it with familial ties. Although their brother was swiftly employed for job experience, OP found herself excluded from the hiring process. When she visited the shop with friends, chaos ensued as her brother, overwhelmed by the bustling business, requested her assistance. Despite the familial plea and the offer to expedite her friends’ orders, OP stood firm, refusing to work without pay. This decision led to a tense encounter with her brother and later a confrontation with her parents, who deemed her actions as petty.
The familial disagreement escalated when OP’s parents insisted she work a shift the following day to compensate for her perceived reluctance. However, she managed to evade this demand by highlighting her existing commitments at another job. Despite the respite, the rift within the family deepened, with accusations of pettiness and laziness lingering in the air, leaving OP to question the validity of her actions within her family.
So keep on scrolling down below to read the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end otherwise, you won’t be able to let us know whether OP is an A-hole or not.
1. OP’s parents got an inheritance from one of OP’s mom’s elderly relatives and they decided to buy an ice cream shop that was going out of business moreover, OP said they love that place because it’s where they met. They also hired OP’s old brother to work there.
2. OP’s house is pretty close to the shop, she and some of her friends from high school went to get some ice cream and to hand out. On that day it was quite busy they got in line and her brother waved at her and asked her to help them
3. OP refused at the moment and said she wasn’t getting paid to do it but he said she had to help because it’s the family business
4. OP went back to her friends but her brother was giving him dirty looks and later date night she was confronted by her parents they said what she did was petty and asked her to work a shift the next day to make it up for it but she reminded them that she has an actual job
5. Now OP wants to know whether she’s an A-hole or not
6. NTA
7. You don’t have to work if you are not getting paid period!
8. Exactly, this user is on point!
9. This user is speaking facts!
10. If they need more help they can hire
11. What are your thoughts on this?
12. What OP replied was logical and accurate she doesn’t have to work if she is not getting paid
13. I love it when people stand their ground especially when they are right
14. All the users are wise enough to give their views about the situation
15. Accurate!
16. Exactly, she came in as a customer and was paying for it.
17. Laws are equal for everyone even if it’s family or not
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