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Girl Asks If She’s Wrong For Refusing To Take Care Of Family Dog And Going To A Concert Instead

When you get a dog, you are committing to caring for and loving another living being for the upcoming years. It is very important to have the support and guidance of your family before making that decision, especially if you are young like your OP today. At first, OP was skeptical about the new dog because she has sacrificed a big part of her social life for it. simply put, she didn’t know if she wanted more commitment. She is already overwhelmed by the fact that she works and drives her brother to and from school. It was a way for her to vent.

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1. Is she the A-Hole? keep on scrolling down to find out.

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2. Is Spud in need of another dog friend?

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3. So basically OP’s parents decided that their dog needs company and they would have to give up their vacation to get another dog on top of it they want OP to give up the concerts she was waiting for 3 months.

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4. Does not sound fair to us, I mean she barely has a social life

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5. So OP’s parents called her selfish and insisted that she makes sacrifices as well to get the dog which she doesn’t want in the first place?

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6. Exactly whoever wants another dog should take the responsibility for it. And how can you expect someone to cancel their plan to go to a concert for which they already have paid?

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7. Exactly don’t get a new dog until you can accommodate it.

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8. This Redditor thinks getting a new dog is a good idea but not right now and we agree with her.

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9. This Redditor isn’t wrong.

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10. Exactly it’s time to reconsider social life is also very important.

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11. People on Reddit are very helpful they raise valid questions

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12.  Yeah getting a dog is a big commitment you have to think about all this before getting multiple dogs

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13. True Pet care clinics cost a lot of money

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14. Exactly you can’t take care of 2 dogs alone you need someone to help you out.

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15. All these points are valid she would have to go away from her dogs at some point who would look after them then?

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16. This Redditor seems very experienced lol

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The OP asked if she was being selfish our answer is no she didn’t ask for a second dog it was her mom and dad’s idea. In addition to that, her parents are asking her to make sacrifices, which would greatly affect her social life. OP being frustrated is completely understandable she was in a lose-lose situation. Social life is very important we hope her family realizes this soon. This was it folks let us know what you think about it, do you think OP was being an A-hole? let us know down below in the comment section make sure you like and share this article with your friends and family and stay tuned for more content like this with Defused. Thank You!

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