In an eye-opening series of posts on the subreddit r/adultery, a Reddit user known as u/Miserable_Ad_7975 shares their story as a self-proclaimed “Cake Eater.” This term refers to individuals who seek to have both a happy marriage and an extramarital affair. However, the tale takes a dramatic turn as u/Miserable_Ad_7975 finds themselves facing the consequences of their actions and the disintegration of their relationship.
The story begins with u/Miserable_Ad_7975 seeking advice on how to confess their affair to their wife. They express their fear that their affair partner’s husband has discovered the truth and filed for divorce. With the looming possibility of their wife discovering the truth, u/Miserable_Ad_7975 reflects on the depth of their love for their wife and the guilt they carry for engaging in a six-year affair. Seeking guidance and contemplating the future, they express the hope that their wife will not leave them, even though they recognize the magnitude of their betrayal.
Commenters on the thread respond with mixed advice, but many urge u/Miserable_Ad_7975 to come clean and face the consequences of their actions. However, amidst the suggestions, u/Miserable_Ad_7975’s brother offers an alternative perspective, advising them not to confess and minimize the situation if confronted. This conflicting guidance further complicates u/Miserable_Ad_7975’s decision-making process.
Keep on scrolling down to read the full story in OP’s own words and we will see you at the end of the article.
1. Here is all the information you need before we dive into it!
2. He had been having an affair for 6 years!
3. Here’s the first post!
4. He took some time off from work to spend time with his wife and two daughters!
5. He doesn’t know what the future holds for him
6. He asked for suggestions on how to confess
7. He thanked everyone for their comments and suggestions
8. People in the comments doubted him for even loving his wife in the first place!
9. He said he isn’t confused and he never was
10. He said that his AP is not his wife and does not even compare!
11. He says that both of them knew that they were playing with fire
12. He says that the reason he strayed has nothing to do with his wife!
13. He got conflicting advice on whether or not to tell his wife!
14. He was not prepared for this one!
15. The doomed day did not come in the shape he was expecting
16. His AP sent him a blurry photo of his wife in the car with another man!
17. He once again asked for advice
18. He asked if he should just confront and hope for the best
19. He manages to get ahold of his wife’s phone!
20. He is not ruled by logic at this moment!
21. He was desperate to talk this out!
22. He doesn’t know how he feels about being on the other side
23. Some of the commenters offered sympathy!
24. He said his marriage seems to be over!
25. She asked for a divorce!
26. She moved into the spare bedroom
27. He asked how can she not feel any emotions
28. He felt so blindsided
29. OP wanted to call out this comment! Keep on scrolling down to read it.
30. This explains why she doesn’t feel any emotion!
31. This comment describes him perfectly!
32. This guy, for real!
33. “This one seems totally deserved.”
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