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In this story, a 22-year-old individual entered into a relationship with a 29-year-old partner who has an 11-year-old daughter from a previous relationship. The daughter consistently displayed disrespectful behavior toward the new partner. To improve the situation, the new partner had dinner with the child’s mother, where the mother showed ignorance and made judgmental comments. Despite attempts to be present and loving toward the child, disrespectful behavior persisted, and the partner chose to ignore it, believing it would eventually stop.
Over time, the new partner found the continuous disrespect to be mentally exhausting and expressed concerns to their partner about the emotional toll. The partner, however, did not actively address the child’s behavior and opted to dismiss it, which led to feelings of lack of support on the part of the new partner. The breaking point occurred when, during a phone call, the child made derogatory comments about the new partner, and the partner did not intervene. Faced with the emotional strain and perceived lack of intervention, the new partner decided to end the relationship.
In response to the new partner’s decision, the partner expressed confusion, stating that it was “weird” not to want to work on the relationship due to issues related to his child. Keep on scrolling down below to read the whole story narrated by OP.
1. OP has been living with her partner for 7 months and before this relationship he had not been with anyone since he had his child back in high school with his ex
2. OP said his daughter from the beginning his daughter has been very disrespectful towards her moreover, OP’s partner had her move in because she was struggling at home. So the daughter’s mother said I don’t know who OP is so am not gonna let her be around my daughter.
3. OP went to dinner with the baby’s momma and OP said the whole time she was criticizing her for her tall height and how she was younger than her partner
4. OP did what she could to bond with his daughter
5. Whenever OP’s partner would take her from school she would rant about how OP is going to be there and how she hates her etc moreover, her husband’s ex would also comment on how she is a red flag and he should reconsider dating her.
6. OP was mentally exhausted due to this and when she told him this he said she would have to ignore her and then she would stop, and OP said he never stoop up for her.
7. OP snapped when she heard his daughter saying ew why are you at OP’s house she’s ugly
8. When OP heard this she said to him that it was over she loved him and it was not his fault
9. Now OP wants to know if she’s a buttface, let’s see what users have to say.
10. Exactly, at least he should have stopped her for once.
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11. NTB
12. And where there’s no respect one shouldn’t be there
13. You can love someone and things can still not work out
14. Not even a single person said OP, not NTB
15. Point to be noted
16. That’s exactly my point at least he should have stood up for her once
18. Your thoughts on this?
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