Man Ignites Huge Drama After Bringing His Pregnant Wife To A Party Attended By His Infertile Ex

In this story, OP navigates the aftermath of a divorce from his ex-wife Kelly due to clashing differences regarding having children, compounded by her subsequent diagnosis of infertility. Despite feeling conflicted and ultimately ending the marriage, OP moves on, finding love and starting a family with Angela. When attending a college friend’s party where Kelly is also present, OP receives backlash for bringing his heavily pregnant wife, perceived by some as insensitive given Kelly’s infertility. However, OP had sought permission from the friend beforehand, believing it appropriate, and was taken aback by the criticism. Amidst accusations of insensitivity, OP struggles with the complex emotions surrounding his past and present relationships.

So keep on scrolling down below to read the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end otherwise, you won’t be able to let us know whether OP is an A-hole or not.

1. OP asks users if he’s an A-hole for showing up to a party with her pregnant wife even though her ex was there. Let’s see what happened.

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2. OP used to be married to her high-school love Kelly and they were really happy together but their main conflict was children. Because OP liked the concept of having children and being young enough to run around them and play.

3. Kelly brought up some points regarding needing to get married but for that, OP needed to be out of debt. So for five years, he did a job he had no passion for and merely did it for the handsome paycheck they were giving. When he was free of debt Kelly said she wanted a house and OP bought that too. After a few months, Kelly said she wanted to go to grad school.

4.  OP said they often fought about children but in the end, OP was always supporting her choices because he didn’t want Kelly to resent him. After some weeks, unluckily Kelly got an illness and OP stood by her but it cost Kelly her fertility.

5. Even after such a big incident Kelly was being stubborn and OP couldn’t take it anymore. OP divorced her and a lot of people called OP selfish and a lot of other things.

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6. OP let Kelly keep the house and moved out of town moreover, OP met Angela and fell in love with her. Shortly after moving in together, Angela was pregnant and they both got married. OP’s college friend moved back to the US and he wanted a small party to see how everyone was doing.

7. He invited Kelly and OP but OP asked if he could bring his wife and he agreed. After quite a long time OP saw Kelly at the party. OP was polite to her and he kept her distance. But the next morning his phone was bombarded by Kelly’s messages saying he’s got a lot of audacity to parade her pregnant wife in front of her infertile ex.

8. OP says he had no ill intentions and asks users if he’s an A-hole for bringing her pregnant wife to the party. Moreover, Kelly said to OP that the idea of OP having a kid with another woman is upsetting to her.

9. OP felt there was no way they could progress in the relationship. Moreover, before her illness, Kelly would gush over people’s babies.

10. OP was empathetic towards her all the time but in return, Kelly didn’t even try to understand him. OP says that he never wanted to put her in a position where she wouldn’t be practicing her career.

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11. OP made it clear that he didn’t leave Kelly when she was ill.

12. I totally agree with this user, OP had no ill intentions at all NTA.

13. And that person is too toxic for OP.

14. Well, I think she couldn’t stand the fact that OP was happy and they were gonna welcome a baby soon.

15. That’s exactly my point, they got divorced and both of them moved on. OP is NTA.

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16. OP you did everything you could have for her. Now, OP needs to let it go.

17. OP please enjoy growing your family with no regrets. OP deserves it more than anyone.

18. Those people are dumb who are criticizing OP and that’s the end of it.

19. This user is speaking facts.

20. I totally agree with this user, what are your thoughts about this?

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