Lazy And Entitled Sibling Fully Depends On Sister, Even Assumed She Would Take Her Kids To School

If you have siblings and some honor in you, you must never be a burden on your biological partner. It doesn’t feel good. Once they achieve independence, even if they want to do a lot for you, in your heart you should never bring about a situation when you rely entirely on them, so much so hat they start feeling a burden.

Unfortunately, that is exactly what happened in today’s story. Reddit user u/Wonderful-Ad-7801 shared that she has a sister who has two kids. One time her sister was going through terrible times so OP and her husband decided to take her in. However, for ten long months, not once did she look for work or help out with the rent. She was a complete burden but OP said nothing until finally she started working but ignored her responsibility as a mother.

One time OP noticed her sister had left for work but didn’t drop her kids off at school She assumed OP would do that for her. OP got really angry and confronted her sister which ultimately resulted in her being called a selfish woman for considering her sister a burden on her.

Troubled, OP took the matter to the courts of the subreddit “Am I The A$$hole?” to know if confronting her sister for not catering to her kids made her wrong or not.

Scroll down below to read the story!

Source: u/Wonderful-Ad-7801

1. What were the kids doing at OP’s house and why wasn’t their mother with them? A lot to know. Let’s find out!

2. When OP’s sister was in a bad place, she and her husband decided to take her and her two kids in till things got better.

3. However, throughout her entire stay, the sister didn’t for once look for work or help with rent or anything.

4. Recently the sister found a job and said she would soon move to an apartment she was in the process of renting out.

5. However she would keep making excuses to stay at OP’s house. OP even had to postpone her birthday to cater to her sister.

6. She managed to stay at OP’s house for a whole week, creating all sorts of delays out of thin air.

7. Even her cat had kittens in OP’s van which annoyed her even further.

8. One morning when OP and her husband got up, she found that her sister’s children hadn’t yet gone to school and the sister was nowhere to be found.

So OP gave her sister a spot in her house. She was so courteous that she didn’t say a thing to her and bared all her expenses for 10 months until finally some sense found its way into her brain and she started working a job. But when she started working, she completely gave off on her responsibilities as her mother. What did the sister assume? That OP would take her kids to school and bring them home? That is entitlement on another level. OP needs to kick this woman out because this is enough now.

Source: u/Wonderful-Ad-7801

9. OP called her sister and lashed out for going to work without attending to her kids despite one of them having autism.

10. The sister said she assumed OP would look after the matter and drop her kids to school.

11. OP made it clear to her sister that she has to take her grandma to an appointment and birthday plans. The sister began dramatizing the situation saying OP considered her a burden.

12. OP got called selfish for speaking the truth.

13. Coming out of the situation OP felt awful as she cried all day as her husband took her grandma to the appointment. She took the matter to the AITA community.

Source: u/Wonderful-Ad-7801

Here’s what the AITA community had to say about this:

14. You kept your emotions locked in for a very long time, OP. You should have dealt with this situation aggressively.

Via Sea-Horse1517

15. For almost a year, all your sister did was take advantage of you, OP. Strengthen your boundaries.

Via Neither_Grab3247

16. Get her out of your house because she will never stop asking for your help…ever.

Via YouthNAsia63

17. Would I be wrong to say OP dealt with this situation terribly? Her sister should have been kicked out way before the 10-month mark.

Via Kayaker170

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