Malaika
Most people have their own fetishes.
Which is all fine and dandy as long as they don’t force other people into it. Books and movies like 50 shades of grey might not have cast a good light on these sort of relationships but they are totally fine as long as how many ever parties are adults and have consented to it. However, that doesn’t mean it is fine to expose this side to your children when they are still learning from your behavior.
it really can’t be good for them if they learn acting like a ‘slave’ is okay for someone. You obviously know what is going on but a child will not be able to understand any of that and will think of everything as normal and how every relationship is supposed to go. So it is understandable this girl was surprised to learn this side of her parent’s bedroom life.
Let me say this beforehand, I am not here to kink shame anyone but nobody wants to know what goes in the bedroom of their parents. I think most people would agree with that so scroll on below and take a look.
Source: Reddit
I am well aware it sounds bad but it really isn’t how it seems at first glance.
I can understand wearing it when you are in the privacy of yo9ur own room but including your child in it is a bit weird.
While anything a person wants to do is fine as long as it’s consensual, I can’t say a kid would want to hear that.
The mother did in fact involve her daughter in that and it really is a bit disgusting.
And she is not handling her daughter well either. There is really no point in calling her a prude.
However this does complicate a matter a bit, I can definitely understand how she wouldn’t have liked to hear that.
OP has buried the lede here – check the comments.
She’s had a lifetime of being scared and confused by her parents’ indiscrete play – that has terrified her out of her own potential sexuality. And her mum ties a bow on this for her by explaining that the necklace that she’s adored is actually part of this trauma.
The BDSM bores need to pipe down. This isn’t about the principle of married couples being able to do it how they want, it’s about a child being continually exposed to adult sexuality in a way that has frightened and broken her as an adult.
Who cares how she expressed that when she finally got an explanation? NTA and her parents owe her, to put it mildly. –mattbee
I mean for her it meant something else while for the parents it was part of a kink.
And they displayed their ‘relationship’ for the children to see which is never okay.
It is also clear how this sort of household can shape a child’s future and how they think.
We all have different stories and thus shouldn’t judge anyone.
Exactly, Why did the parents have to force it down her throat?
If that is wrong, how is this considered okay?
And that can really mess with a person’s thoughts as it is clear in this scenerio.
What are your thoughts on this? Comment down below and let us know.